Should I be with him??

No mean, rude comments, please. It's just a little help. My sister had a fiance and they were in love, they eventually broke up, now he wants to be with me and says he loves me. I don't wanna do my sister wrong, he's a nice guy and all but, I don't know if i should date him or not. But then again, I go to his myspace and he has these girls saying that they need to party and that they miss him and love him. I'm pretty confused.He hurt my sister, and I don't want him hurting me plus I don't know if he's serious because he even says he loves me a lot and misses me. I don't know. Any advice?

Should I be with him??

No, for a couple of reasons.

He was with your sister.

(Please, don't do that to her. No guy is worth hurting your sister)

He's a player.

(From what you said about his myspace, he's been around.)

He's lying.

(How can he love you if he just broke up with your sister? He didn't love your sister of he doesn't love you. Either way, he's lying. Or he doesn't know what love is. Usually, when your in love and break up with that person, its hard to fall in love again so quickly.)

Basically......Don't don't do it.

(From what you wrote, it's definately not going to work out. And you'll just end up heartbroken with a broken realtionship with your sister.)

Hope I helped,

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simply no

Should I be with him??

No - he's an ***, and you'd be one too if you do that to your sis. H'es not a nice guy - and you're too young to see it.

Should I be with him??

no family come 1st no matter if a person says that they dont care they really do so dont be wit him

Should I be with him??

Blood is thicker than water. Don't get a broken heart on his rebound. Beside, your sister will never forgive you.

Should I be with him??

unless you can be realistically sure that this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with i wouldnt do it... cause after hes long gone your sister will still feel the hurt you caused her

Should I be with him??

I say that he is not worth it! Sounds to me like he is a player! If you care about your sister you wouldn't date him because she might get hurt over the deal. He is not worth it, and there are a lot better guys out there.

Should I be with him??

No, i can tell you from experience that is not the guy you want.....if he hurt your sister he will most definitely hurt you as well!!! I've been in your situation and im telling you there is some great guy out there who wants to be with you and would give you the world....just be patient..Don't settle for less...God Bless

Should I be with him??

I would stay away. It does come down to how long they've been apart, but she isn't just a friend it's family and he broke her heart. Now maybe you two aren't close, but that is just such a burn. Plus, if you see he's on this site talking to girls forget it. He's probably one of those guys who wants to say he did both sisters. They are out there and they're scum. He doesn't love you, he can say it and not mean it. Don't screw up your family for him.

Should I be with him??

i would keep it friendly, nothing more. 1st, you don't want to be in a situation where there is due or undue anynmosity b/w you and your sis. no guy is worth that. 2nd, his myspace friends, are they actually people he knows and hangs w/ or are they people from across the country trying to get a little attn? either way, doesn't sound all that great. plus, the "i love you, I miss you" is a bit weird.. is it "you're my lil' sis and i miss you" or is it "i always wanted you and not your sis". eitherway, keep it friendly, there is nothing wrong w/ being friends, i would be a bit wary of his intentions and again, no need to cause undue anynmosity in the family. he'll be a boyfriend, but she's always going to be your sister. good luck.

Should I be with him??

There's a huge difference between "love" and "infatuation." You have to make sure that he knows the difference between the two words. Personally, though, if he hurt your sister that bad, and you're this concerned with everything about him, and is just moving up the "list" (to you, in this case), then I'd avoid him at all costs. Seems like nothing but trouble, especially if he parties a lot - it just means he's not ready for a serious relationship and just wants to have fun and then some; perfect example is with your sister.

Seriously, if you have this much concern about it, your best bet is to just avoid him. He won't be worth all the trouble you'll most likely experience.

Should I be with him??

First of all, you need to get the all-clear from your sister. She might still have feelings for him since they were going to get married. How would it work for family gatherings, how would she feel about that. Unless you are truly madly deeply in love with him and he is your soulmate, I would not play with fire.

These girls on his myspace are probably just party friends and you should not take it that serious. It's a pretty typical comment: Miss ya! Let's party! Love Ya! ... I doubt they are revealing some deep emotions there.

Be careful not to be his 'rebound'. You are his ex's sister, which is kinda like replacing her???

Your decision, but I would warn against it.

Should I be with him??

it sounds like this guy is just stringing you along..... he did your sister wrong, what makes you think he won't do you the same way?

Should I be with him??

Remember that blood is thicker then water. I wouldn't do it.

Should I be with him??

Talk to your sister and get an okay from her. What kind of guy was he? Just because he gets stuff on my spaces from girls means nothing. They could be in Buffalo and you are say Phoenix. So that means little to nothing. Being a player and pretending to be a player on my space is two different things.

Should I be with him??

who gives a care about ur sisters ex, ur supposed to forget him after what he has done, and besides ur supposed to stand up to ur sis, trust me.(do u think this is rude, if u do i am sorry)