Do you think this is messed up???

i met this boy who i fell deeply inlove with.

but then i found out that he was moving =[ so we had to break up. he had about a week befor he moved. and he said, i wont be dating anytime soon. and i wont talk to any girls untill i move. becuase i still love you and i dont want to hurt you.a few day later, he sent me a message over myspace saying, hey do will you go out with james?(his friend) i said no!! i still have feelings for you and i dont just date random people. why are you asking? nahh just asking. comes to find out he was dating one of my friends. only a few days after our relation ship. after he promissed, and he could wait just one week. and i havent been able to talk to him about it because his "girlfriend" who is no longer my friend told him we cant talk. and i havnt been able to stop crying.

Do you think this is messed up???

Wow, that's incredibly shady...on both their parts. I'm absolutely sorry that this has happened to you!! :[ I'm sure hearing people say "get over him" or "don't cry, he's not worth it" isn't all that comforting....especially since you cared so much about him.

But, it's true...he really is not worth your time or tears. It's really difficult to move on when you've poured your heart out %26amp; loved someone who then betrayed you. I completely understand. Someone already suggested that you do something to distract yourself from this situation %26amp; that's great advice. Delve into something you love to do....art, hiking, music, photography, shopping, sports, hanging out with [true] friends....anything that will keep you occupied. Surround yourself with people who truly DO love %26amp; care for you. Be ACTIVE....once you get up %26amp; start doing something else that you love, it'll help you move on. Staying busy won't allow you time to sit around and mope, even though I know that's probably what you feel like doing.

You're still young %26amp; you've got a lot of life to live....one STUPID guy %26amp; one BACK-STABBING friend are NOT worth it. Do not allow them to ruin your day. Stay strong %26amp; keep smiling...I know it's tough, but I have faith that you can do it...

Best of luck, darling. Again, I'm so sorry....if you need to vent or anything else, drop me an e-mail.

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Aw this happend to me its alright. You will get over it. Find a really close friend to talk to about it. The guy awas a jerk

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that is pretty messed up. but some boys lie. you shouldn't cry for them two being idiots. find yourself a hotter boy that won't lie to you.

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Just move on. Try to forget him. He's not worth your attention. Do things to distract you mind. Hope you'll feel better.

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this piece of crap is a playa im sorry katie but its the truth. when he asked if u wanted to date his friend that shouldve been a red flag. katie im so sorrry

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Do not waste your tears on that guy!

He's not worth it anyway. Move on, for sure you will find a guy who will be as faithful as you are.

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sorry to hear this has happened but its horrible to say that things like that do hopefully you will be one of the lucky ones that doesn't have it happen to them much .