I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Right, theres this girl who I absolutely love. I've loved her for years. I really really like her, its such a deep love I've never felt anything like that for a girl. But the big problem is, ages ago when I was in school (Now I'm in College), I used to get on the same bus with her. I got her email adress and started talking to her. But I seriously messed it up, perhaps pushing her away, and I havent talked to her since. She never uses her email adress anymore and she hasn't got a myspace that I know of so I cant message her.

But I know where she lives, she lives pretty near to me. I was wondering if I should post her a Valentines Day card, cos I'm going through a really hard time with girls at the moment, and I have nothing to lose.

I really don't know whether I should?

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

For sure :) give her a card and tell her it's been a while you should catch up sometime maybe over a lunch or somethin. Make it sound like 2 friends...maybe somethin could come of it later on?

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

I really appreciate this. I am going to talk to her again and hopefully something can be made of it. Thanks so much for the confidence booster! Report It

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Do it!

It's Valentine's day, you've got nothing to lose, and it's pretty much now or never.

Go for it or you'll always regret it.

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

I recomend you to get her a valentines day card. every girl wants something for valentines day, makes her feel special that someones thinking about her...even if u messed things up...it still lets her know that u care and respect her...espeacially feeling bad of what u have done.

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

You could send her an annonomus card and not sign it but say from a long time ago friend. And just put the address on the card but no name, if she figures it out and finds you good and if not you have your answer to wether it will work out or not. Or you could really surprise her and bring her flowers with a huge apology and hope she has grown up enough to forgive you for your mistake. BTW how sever was the mistake? think about that too before doing anything and how you would react if someone you liked did it to you, then move forward. But I wish you luck as you and only you can really decide if you want her back in your life again or not, And she needs to decide to forgive you or not and welcome you back.

Best of luck and Happy Valentines day to you.

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Girls love Valentine's Day cards...It will probably make her smile just knowing that you're thinking of her...Go for it!

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

do it... annomonously if ur scared xx

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Right, so you are so in love with her..okay, and you were once in contact with her then you messed it up and never talked to her since. So far, not good.

Now, that you are having trouble with the girls, you want to send her a Valentine's Day card??

Dude, don't bother because if she is smart, she will see you are just looking for someone to fill the void.

When you truly care about someone, you will work out things...even if you screwed things up. You don't just stop talking to them....capeche?

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

As you say, you have got nothing to lose. If you do this though, my advise to you would be to play it cool. You dont want her to feel stalked!

You dont say how you messed up, I assume perhaps you were sending too many messages or got too suggestive. At some point, if ever your paths cross, in order to move forward in anyway you will have to appologize for the past and be prepared for a possible snub. It takes courage but if nothing else she will respect you

Good luck!