Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

okay my boyfriend is 22. we grew up best friends for 11 years and never dated. we were always like brother and sister.. now were dating. he got a divorce with his ex wife sometime between last summer and march.. he recently dated a girl who knew back in the day and dated for 3 months starting in march.. he never kept her comments on myspace and everytime shed tried talking to him hed ignore her. he keeps my comments and even writes me on his aim profile.. and puts in a relationship on myspace where as for the girl of 3 months he had it then changed it to single before they broke up. he told me recently she was a rebound and he was sorry but she was.. and he never talks about his ex wife.. unless i bring it up.. and when i asked him how he felt about her.. he started cussing about how he wants her to die.. i want to know if im the rebound as well as the 3 month girl. he says he loves me and im the greatest girlfriend ever.. and if yall think im the rebound girl.. how can i change that

Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

You are rebound No. 2. Congratulations.

Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

I dont' think you're a rebound. If he needed another rebound he would have find some girl he picked up somewhere and dated her for a bit. He wouldn't decide to date you and risk ruining your friendship unless he really cared about you. Also, have you asked this question to him? If you do it delicately then it really is an innocent question and he shouldn't get too angry... i mean your concerns sound pretty reasonable to me. But i would say you aren't a rebound... you were already to important to him.

Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

You are not really considering what he is saying are you? You need to leave this guy alone

Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

I wouldn't call you a "rebound" girl. You need to trust your man and your gut but don't believe him when he says he "hates" her.

You can only "hate" somebody you care for! You understand that right?

Just give it time and take it slow and "think" before you speak. Women have a hard time with this sometimes. Also, use your logic. What makes logical sense to you? What feels right?

Also, relax.....enjoy the moments.

Good luck!!!!

Rebound question!! please help!!(many many answers please)?

If you really like this guy, just keep your eyes open. It's possible that you could be a rebound girl, but your never really gonna know until it is too late. So trust your gut feelings and if you start thinkin something is off, go with that. you cant live life fearing that it's not going to work out with some guy; go with the flow, and be smart.