Should i divorce him?

well we have had a history of him not being faithful. But it was different or so i thought when we got enaged and then married. Its been 6 months now, and next week he is goin to iraqa but i was going through his email and found a myspace that has only some girl that likes him and one of his friends on it. And i saw that he had a new message from her, and apparently they had been wrtting for a while with all the Re.Re Re in the reply, but he had been deleting them. all it says is his saying he needs her to hurry up and send w.e it is she is sending, doesnt say what and her repy saying I have liked you since i was younger you just dont understand and that she would send it soon. hes about to be gone for 6months, and hes done this stuff before about a year ago. Im thinkin i made a big mistake. Should i divorce him asap, or wait till he gets back? when i asked him about it he said i dunno. that he couldnt remeber. B.S right. I still love him but i can go on with this disrespect.

Should i divorce him?

This is probably not the best advice in the world, but the first thing that popped into my mind was to create your own myspace identity (not your real one), befriend this girl, and see if she opens up about your husband. OK. I said it wasn't the best advice in the world. You may want to hold off a bit longer until you find out exactly what is going on between the two.

Should i divorce him?

"well we have had a history of him not being faithful."

I didn't have to read any farther than that.

Divorce him.

Should i divorce him?

He remember quite well and is trying to do what a lot of unfaithful men do, avoid being caught. I would cut my losses with this man and file for a divorce. He is obviously a cheater and has no intention of being anything different considering this isnt the first time. Leave him.

Should i divorce him?

I don't think I would divorce him just yet. It may be nothing, but if he has a bad track record I would suspect something too. Just wait it out, and try to work it out before giving up completely. I don't know what it could be that they are sending or whatever, but try not to worry about it too much. Unless she is going to Iraq with him...I wouldn't worry about emails.

Should i divorce him?

I'd have a serious talk with him before he left. If he doesn't come clean and tell you what is going on and confess basically to what they have been talking about, then leave him wondering when he leaves if you are going to be there for him when he gets back or not.

What you are looking for in this discussion is your husband revealing information to you that you don't already know. If he doesn't reveal new incriminating information, then he is holding out on you and therefore hasn't come clean.

During those six months you can look at your options and decide what to do at your leisure.

Should i divorce him?

If he was cheating on you so much before you were married, what makes you think he won't when you are married?

Now your stuck aren't you?

We all can tell you to divorce him, but I have my doubts if you will.

He has been using you as a doormat for so long, that's what your used to.

Should i divorce him?

It sounds like you answered your own question. You did make a big mistake. If things were not good before chances are they weren't going to improve because you got married. I would tell him that your intentions are to separate and that when he returns you will discuss how to proceed from there.

Sorry but I don't think he should be married.

Should i divorce him?

Kick him to the curb.

Should i divorce him?

mabe you should go to counsiling first then if that don't work get a divorce whatever you feel comfortable doin go with you heart

Should i divorce him?

The fact that he is playing dumb should be all the answer you need. Given that he has cheated in the past, chances are that he has not changed and has just become alittle more careful as to try and not get caught. I understand that you love him but you have to ask yourself, is the love you feel for him, really worth the disrespect that he is showing towards you.

Should i divorce him?

I say that if this in a reoccurring problem that you need to get out of the situation. But I would wait until he returned from Iraq. While he is over there he is going to get hazard pay increasing his pay quite a bit. I would start saving what money I could and when he gets back I would divorce him. I hope that you do not have children. You deserve to be treated with respect and if he doesn't give it to you then you have to go. Who do you love more, yourself or him? You have to think about that. Are you worth having someone that will respect and love only you? I hope you think so!!! Good luck.

Should i divorce him?

Get rid of him.

Divorce.

Should i divorce him?

Let him go to Iraq and find out first hand that life isn't a joke and it is precious. I guarantee you that he will be rethinking his mistakes as his life goes by him every moment.

In the meantime, while he is away...reevaluate your life.

Should i divorce him?

I would think it would be better for you and for him if you just confronted him now and if you don't like the answers you get, start proceedings then. That way, you get closure and he gets to try to get his head straight before he goes into a war zone. If you waited until he was already deployed, it could be a distraction that gets him killed and waiting until he came home would turn into more drama than anyone really wants.

Should i divorce him?

Why did you marry a cheater? Did you think that marriage would all of a sudden change him? That's the worse solution to a cheating boyfriend!

Now what you do is divorce him BEFORE he leaves. This way you both can have a fresh start and move on. Who knows how long he going to be gone and you know there will be women where ever he goes so he may cheat on you left and right there.

You gave him the ultimate chance and put a lot of trust in him by marrying him and he goes and starts cheating on you again? Do not stand for it this time. Leave before you have children and before you waste anymore of your precious time on this loser.

He's got a lot of nerve by just brushing off the whole email situation you confronted him with, it's like he knows you are a doormat and he doesn't give a crap about what you think. He knows you'll just stay no matter what. He's got you just where he wants you. He can freely cheat on you with no strings attached, he just get sex from these women and say oh I can't be with you because I am married and then just move on to the next woman. Surprise him and leave his pathetic behind!

Should i divorce him?

you do what you think is right for you .you want a divorce you don,t have to wait ,all men like the i deal other women like them but there is a limit . you are not the only women husbands done this to be live me . they want their ice cream a cake both . some of us deal with it in our own way . they well all ways lie a bout it . but stand your grands .no matter what .you stay with him fine but let him know you well not put up with it no more .and if you don,t want to deal with it go your own way start a new life . you only have one thats it .

Should i divorce him?

Since he is going to Iraq....wait it out(or let him think so anyway). While he is gone...stack up the extra money he will be making and when he gets back, leave his a**. Get all the documentation you can..hack the emails, cell phone (if available) whatever it takes. Take your findings to the legal office and take him for everything he has. My husband and I both have myspace accounts and it is the gate way to divorce. People hide all kinds of stuff on there. It has caused plenty of problems. If he does not respect you enough to delete(block) her from contacting him, he is up to no good. Why would he want a girl that likes him on his friend list when he know he is married?

Should i divorce him?

i read only the first line.....get rid of him

Should i divorce him?

move on