Come on explain this situation !?

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.

we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically

saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after

the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc

i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw

eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo

about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted

me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would

never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i

left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said

"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were

keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and

staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs

he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.

5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the

next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past

august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15

minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said

that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said

it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want

my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the

second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.

i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?

and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom

so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little

offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.

the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there

and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day

and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and

he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out

he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going

on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me

and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.

i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend

and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.

so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.

i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was

like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend

got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he

doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know

the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy

you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes

phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..

and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the

guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.

his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook

brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"

and we havent spoken in 3 months..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"

and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with

my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands

were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face

on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he

was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by

his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did

artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.

and now last night i hooked up with the guy i like's friend..and now the guy i like has a myspace title that says.."mostly i hate

to sleep alone." and now hes officially going out with his ex gf..and his myspace title is " i cant control myself."

1. did he like me and have feelings for me?

2. was he using me?

3. was i just a hookup?

4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?

5. did i pressure him or push him away?

6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?

7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?

8. why hasnt he been contacting me?

9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?

10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?

11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year just to have sex..even if he was having sex with other girls when i was in ny..i mean

we werent bf and gf?

12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?

13. why is he back with his ex gf?

14. does this sound like just friends or more than friends?

15. im beating myself up..thinking i did something wrong. did asking questions drive him away? or did i insult him and now

he doesnt like me anymore because i ask if hes using me?

16. do you think maybe he was falling in love with me and it scares him?

Come on explain this situation !?

i read some of it but i cant read anymore....gosh

anyways i think you need to have a serious talk with the guy u like.... seeking advice from a random stranger isnt going to get u the answers you want. also in one part u said that you are 15...well what the hell? what are you doing hooking up with a random guy on a cruise and having sex with him!!!

PEACE

Come on explain this situation !?

Do you really expect people to read that!

Why dont you talk to a friend about it...

Come on explain this situation !?

i thought you could only fit so many characters into the explanation of a question...you couldn't possibly have kept things under that number...and do you expect anyone to waste their time answering 16 questions about this whole situation?

Come on explain this situation !?

omg, is this for real? if so, move on.........