My fiance cheated on me!!!?

the story goes like this. My fianc茅 is American and I am Asian. now i have 2-3 months left in my country coz soon i will be in his country. While we are apart, his ex-gf stayed in his house for a week but he didn鈥檛 told me about that. 3 weeks ago, i opened my fianc茅鈥檚 email and saw read their messages. And so i added the girl on myspace and started to send her a msg. she replied back and said that she wants to be my friend and hang out with me when I am already there. last week my fianc茅 admitted that he slept with her. the girl wants my fianc茅 to break up with me and go with her. when my fianc茅 told her how much he loves me and that he can never leave me, she started to get wild. this girl already broke one family. She let the guy leave his family and go with her. and now the girl is starting to talk bad things about me to my fianc茅鈥檚 friends and she's starting to have a fight on me. She said me and my fianc茅 is a perfect couple because we are both losers. What do you think should I do?

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Oh man, hun! I'm so sorry!! There's nothing worse than having someone close to you betray you like that! My boyfriend cheated on me as well. Hun, I think the best advice I can give you is to just walk away from this relationship. He promises he'll never leave you, right? Well, hasn't he already...it sounds like this man needs to decide who he wants to be with and who he really loves. If ya'll are persistent and really want this marriage someday to work out, I would highly suggest counseling. I am a strong believer however, in the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater." Is this the same guy that wanted to have the threesome? If so, I think this guy may have some issues that need to be worked out and you need to decide whether or not you want to help deal with those issues. In the long wrong I think it will be easier and worth it to just walk away from it now, there are other men out there. Who knows, maybe this guy isn't the man you're supposed to marry. Maybe the guy you're supposed to marry is still out there somewhere waiting to meet you and waiting for a chance with you. You never know...good luck, girlie. I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Dump him...there are others and apparently, hes still hung up on her.

AND DO NOT BLAME THE GIRL!! Sure she had a hand in it..but he's just as guilty if not more.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Find another man.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Run fast.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Dump him or prepare for a life of misery.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Um, don't move to America to be with him. He's obviously not finished with his ex, and he's inviting you into his world of pain, which is particularly cruel given the distance you're going.

You can move to America for other reasons, though. You Asian girls are a hot commodity over here these days.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

I would have left him right after he told me he cheated on me because you will never be able to trust him after this and what is a relationship without trust.

I mean you SHOULD leave him not only because he cheated on you, but also because you dont need this drama in your life when you come to America! Dump him and find someone else!

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Dump this idiot, a man that cheats once will always cheat!

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

come and be with me

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Let her have him. He is not worth marrying.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Wow, very sorry to hear that, you must be heart broken. Dump this loser honey. If you marry him you are just setting yourself up for more misery down the road. Be grateful you found out now and do your best to move on with your life, you deserve to be treated better than this. Do not give him a second chance, he doesn't deserve it.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

The worst thing you can do is to continue this relationship. He has already cheated on you before the marriage, just imagine what he will do after. If you continue with this relationship, you are setting yourself up for failure.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

when you get to america find her adn kick her *** then kick his *** and find a new man

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

You can do better, Do NOT settle for him. If he really Loved you, he would respect you! Get Rid of him! It will hurt, but you will find somebody better! He will only cheat on you again %26amp; that hurts worst!

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

He cheated on you, that's something to deal with right now, trust is broken and you have to figure out if you want to continue with him. I understand you want to come to the United States, but like this is really letting yourself down.

Don't do or say anything to or about the ex, she will hang herself, she just needs the rope to do it with. Don't compete with her, he doesn't seem to be worth it.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

break up with ur fiance because he is a cheater.

if not, get them both togetherand let each one say what's on their mind.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

dump him! he doesn't respect you, and you are wanting to go and live with him. go to the states, and live your own life!

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

If you stay with him whatever happens is your own fault. Get rid of this loser and move on to somebody that is worth your time and will treat you the way you should be treated.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

Open ur eyes and see the truth. He's not the one for u.

My fiance cheated on me!!!?

lol, you should have known