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ok, your boyfriend texts two particular girls on his cell phone, but he insists he isnt%26gt; or wouldnt cheat.

im a jelous person... but the thing is i cheated on him a month

ago, i told him... im never going to cheat again!! but he wont beleive me!! im so in love with him i dont want him to do the same to me.. :(

but yet, he talks to these two girls that are his "friends" on myspace and he TEXTS them occasionally... what the heck?!?! would he cheat? why would he need to talk to them, he has me for a reason right? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? honestly... am i trippen? lol i just dont want to become to jelouse and accuse him and push him to cheat on me because i assume too much

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As a general theory because you have cheated you will always feel like he may cheat on you. its called projection I beleive. This is a scary situation because, in his mind, he has a free pass to cheat because you did it to him. You cant tell him not to text those girls, because he's just gonna say "what, because you cheated you think im like that". Deal with your jealousy, try your best to keep it to yourself. What you should do is find out as much as you can about these girls, to the point where you can talk to them on your own. Ever heard of keep your enemies closer. Will this is the time you should. The best way to avoid being cheated on is repent for your mistake everyday, and Karma may forgive you

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You cheated on HIM and you're worried about a couple female friends of his? Wow. You're a real piece of work.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You are the offender, but yet, you accuse him.

Check yourself lady, you are the problem.

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a) he is allowed to have friends that are girls

b) you cheated on him, paybacks a b****

c) Why don't you meet these girls and find out whats going on

d) Take his phone and read the text messages hes sending

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You guys are cheating on each other.

Now, I think that you should break up with him and forget him. You should think about things over while you're single. At least 3 months without a boyfriend. Think about what's right and wrong. Like the mistakes you did.

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I dont really know your situation but maybe a few things..

1. you are overacting

2. you'r boyfriend is a jerk and is cheating on you

3. He is getting back at you

4. the girls that he texts do not like you so they are planning to get him from you...

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texting someone is not cheating! why isn't he allowed to have friends? my advice is calm down until you have REAL proof.. then you can freak out :)

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my x bf was like that...most of my friends are guys so i talk to them nd hang out with them all the time, he got really really jel....he didnt cheat on me or nything but it pissed him off...specially cuz some of my guy friends are a lil touchy nd stuff....you should trust him, hes allowed to have best friends..that just so happen to b girls!

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Without complete trust, there is no relationship. Wait until you both mature a bit.

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You need to relax. What your feeling is what a lot of people that cheat feel. Your scared that he is going to cheat on you because you did. That might be true, or it might not be. I have seen both scenerious take place.

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is this because you want to be the only one in this relationship that cheat or are you afraid that the girl he cheets with will make you look like the tramp you jsut told us about.

man girls are so wacked when it comes to them doing something but get pissed off if the guy even thinks about it.

get a grip

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If you want his undivided attention (ugh) just

don't talk about who he texts and who he talks to.

Be cool when he's around so he doesn't know you are already bonkers over him. Good grief there are a million guys out there, why tie yourself down with one? There's plenty of time for that when you are tired of play and want to settle down. Of course I chose to be settled down here with my cat. It's so peaceful and I don't have to tell anyone where I'm going or when to expect me. When you have that attitude the boys will flock around you.

I have a real attitude. It seems to attract a lot of women and even girls who are with another guy.

Have fun.

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so if he can't talk to other girls....you're obviously not talking to other guys right? i mean why would you need to when you've got him? doesn't work like that does it. grow up girlie...jealousy is not attractive and if you are so in love...why did you cheat in the first place?....work yourself out sweetie. you obviously have some commitment problems as well as low self esteem. talk to some one that can really help like a therapist hunny. hope this helps.