Thursday, December 3, 2009

Whats his problem?He just gets to me!?

went out with a boy for four months and the first 2 months, he was so sweet.He told me he loved me and called me everyday and text me, write me sweet notes, and he told me that he loved me.Well after that everything just went downhill from there. He would still say he love me, but he wouldnt treat me right.He stopped hanging around me at school, wouldnt call as much, no sweets notes.He would do something new every week to piss me off.One week he had girl sit on his lap, and he was like its okay i dont like her and everyone sits on my lap, another week his ex kept calling him.Last week we broke up because i found out he kissed another girl while he was drunk.He had called me that night all drunk saying how much he loved me and how he didnt want to lose me and that i shouldnt believe anything i hear. His cousin kept telling me how it was true and he kept denying it.I was like maybe we should break up and he was like oh well.Then he called me back saying that we should cuz he found out



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that it was true, since he was so drunk.Then we broke up and he told me he still loved me and how he wants to get back togther one day and i told him i loved him too.Then two days after that i heard the whole story from a good friend of mines.And how he was with that same girl again the next day!When i confronted him he just lied some more saying how he was drunk t.hat whole week and didnt know what was going on.I kept calling him a liar and he was saying all kind of stuff like how he wasnt the reason why he lied and that i was, makes no since.Then we started talking normally and he said he loved me again.And he kept calling me non stop one day because he wanted his birthday gift he thought i bought him.When i told him i didnt have it he never called again.He didnt call me in 3 days.He just ignored me at school.And i would see him talking to the girl he kissed.He later on admitted that he knew he kissed a girl, but didnt know who she was, hes such a liar.Sometimes i catch him staring



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at me.I dont know whats the deal with him.He called me earlier today.He's going around telling everyone that he broke up with me!When people would ask who broke up with who i would respond by telling them that we came to an agreement.I told one of his friends that i broke up with him.I dont know why he called me today.Maybe he's mad that i'm now saying how i broke up with him. Which is true.My new name on myspace is I love you is 8 letters long, so is bullshit.LOL.I hope that pissed him off



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am i wrong for saying that i broke up with him?It actually was an agreement, we both wanted to break up, but im the one who brought it up first.What should i do?With him, im trying to forget i ever met him and ignore him, but he just gets to me.He was my first real boyfriend, i did love him for a time, but now i dont know what im feeling.



Whats his problem?He just gets to me!?

Dump him. grow a beard and move to alaska!



Whats his problem?He just gets to me!?

You are feeling like a young woman going through her first break-up. Please let him go and get over him. What is the slang they used to use for guys like that? "Two-bit playa"? Anyhoo, you not only deserve better than a guy who treats you like a commodity, but you also deserve to wait a bit on the dating until you have your life together. And who cares who broke up with who? High School (I hope we aren't talking Middle School--if so, multiply this advice by 10 times!) is a time to learn academics; also to learn who you are and what you plan to be. Friends in school will come and go: and so will boyfriends, only with a lot more pain involved. Use this time to develop as a woman; and keep in mind that guys need a chance to develop into real men with responsibilities before they're truly ready for a relationship. Otherwise, you wind up with a immature jerk: and it sure sounds like you did. Dump him, let him grow up and mature and never look back. Concentrate on your studies and getting into a good college and becoming a success; by that time, the guys around you will have time to do the same. And once that happens, happy dating!!!



Meantime, try to not shed too many tears over him. Just be glad he's out of your life. Stick to your guns. Don't let him get to you.

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