Monday, December 28, 2009

Is there something wrong with me?

I was dating a guy for about four months. I started noticeing that another girl on his myspace(lame I know), had pics of her and someone who looked very similar to him kissing. I thought nothing of it, but we did begin to have some problems. We decided to go on a break but kept things about the same as they were, because we loved each other very much and didn't want to fully seperate. I went on vacation to paris and while i was gone i recently found out he cheated on me. Not only did he cheat on me but is now dating the girl he did this over myspace...and in about a 2 day time frame...did i do something wrong?



Is there something wrong with me?

gurl you didnt do anything wrong that is on him that is his lost you can do so much better nothing good comes from a cheater he was probly doing it the whole time you just didnt know about it thats how most guys are you think you have something good and then it blows up in your face but you can do so much better and you dont need him next time you see him just flaunt your stuff and show him what he is missing and what he can never have again



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Is there something wrong with me?

No sweetie... you did NOTHING wrong. Guys are just filthy liars and no good cheaters. He is the wrong one. Don't blame yourself for this. Just move on to bigger and better things, ok mama.



Is there something wrong with me?

you did nothing wrong..he is just a loser and a jerk. you deserve so much better than him.



Is there something wrong with me?

No, some guys are just dumb. he's not even worth your time. you could find someone better. theres nothing wrong with you.



Is there something wrong with me?

no hes just a big jerk and is someday gonna pay for it



Is there something wrong with me?

OMG...my ex did the same thing to me. myspace is how it started. we were together for almost 3 yrs too. i loved him sooooooo much. my heart belonged to him. i thought i did something wrong too. it took me a long time to get over him but i did. now that i look back...i must have been desperate to be with a joke like him. now that he knows im getting married...he is trying his hardest to come back into my life. but im not letting that happen. I've moved on. you do the same. it will take time...but you will get there. no, not all men are liars and cheaters. you'll find the right man who will love and adore you for who you are.

Should I take her back?

hi i have been wit my ex for 2 yr 3 month and we broke up because i flirted with a girl i don't know on myspace. She then got wit someone else so fast only 7 days and had sex with him and then I sent her flowers she let him throw them away. They didn't work out so now she talking about gettin back with me here is the thing she is in florida for the summer since june and the boy she was with was her sisters husbands play brother or somthing in florida. Now I don't believe u can love and then have sex wit som1 u knew for only 14 days after leaving a 2 yr 3 month relationship what should I do because she then dated some other guy because she says she's lonley but wants to be with me



Should I take her back?

I think you guys should sit and talk about it, and you yourself have to explore your feelings for her. If you truly love her and trust her and all that good stuff, then why shouldn't you get back together. You also have to stop with that flirting crap, after 2 years you would think that something must be right between you and her. As for the distance situation, well it's only temporary and if you get back together maybe she'll come back earlier than planned to surprise you.



Hope it helps, and good luck.

Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

I am a freshman in high school and I really like this sophomore girl whos in my Geomotry class. We talk on myspace alot mostly about a SW studies class we had last quarter,bands and upcoming classes . However weve only talked in person a few times. For some reason I cant get her out of my mind, I think about her all the time. I love her personality, she's easy to talk to, not to mention she's incredibly attractive. I think she likes me, mostly becuase of the little things like we will end up looking at each other, and for a moment it will be really awkward but then we'll just smile at each other, and of course the aforementioned, but I'm also afraid that I'm tricking myself into believing she likes me. I really want to get to know her more but I've always been shy and self-conscious, especially around girls. My primary concern is how I can get to know her more, and secondly I want to know if it really matters that I'm a freshman and shes a sophomor



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

ask her to lunch one day



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

N O B O D Y A N S W E R S



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

No, go for it



just ask her if she wants to hang out



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

well u should talk to her more in class. i most definately thinks that she likes u because u to flirt a lot.



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

take baby steps talking on the internet is a good start, then start talking to her in person everyday. You will soon get to know her more and she will get to know you. Then in the long run ask her out.



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

give it time... u will kniw if she really likes u... dont rush into anything...goodluck



and if she really likes you.. your grade wont matter to her



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

okay one year age difference...totally fine...but like you said...get to know her more.after you feel your ready,tell her how you feel..if she doesnt feel the same then at least she knows right??



:D good luck!



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

ask her out. sure it might be strange at first to go out with a girl in a higher grade but it's common in my school. i'm a soph. and i fell for one of my best guy frineds who is a freshman. things didn't work out but he's going out with another soph. so... just go for it



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

i am sophomore ma self



idk about that



well ma friend is going true the same thing



shes a 10th grader 2 and she likes a fresshy 2



but she dosent know if she should because of the age



not the grade



if you guys have the same age its a higher chance



but i think she dose like you but she dosent want to show it



or shes not sure because if the grade or age



Like a sophmore Girl but not sure if she likes me back?

Well, especially with her being a sophmore GIRL, and you being a freshman BOY, that might be something to worry about as far as she is concerned. But you really seem to like this girl, and you shouldn't let that get in the way of how you feel. So you should let her know, if you think you can do something about it, and if she says no, than wear her down. Try your hardest to get the girl of your dreams.

Please Help!!?

I like this guy at my school.



He is going out with this girl and is madly in love with her.



I don't even think I have a chance with him.



We only talk on myspace and in school he ignores me!



what should I do?



I know i shouldn't get into his relationship and stuff but... i don't know im confused!



Please Help!!?

i have had this same problem before. all you can do is talk to him and get to know him better. try to be brave and talk to him during school. make him think of you. dont doubt that you will ever have a chance with him. eventually, they will break up and if you are right there, he could fall for you. but dont give up unless you know for sure he doesnt like you... if you find that out, dont waste your time.



Please Help!!?

yep. ive got the same probem... he is a year older and is going out with this other girl ... he USED to like me. but i dont think he does any more.



ill tell ya what im gonna do ?? im gonna get in between their relationship and try to get the real feelings out of the guy. he might not even like this girl that much maybe he is just going out with her because of his image ... and that she is good looking. ive liked him since grade one so i think i would have more feelings for him than any other person.



do what u want.



Please Help!!?

If the guy is madly in love with some girl I'd wait until they break up because if you try something to break them up you can wind up making this girl really mad also the guy will like you less if you break them up.



Please Help!!?

Unfortunately, you have to move on. The last thing you want is to be the "boyfriend stealer" reputaion. Just try to find another guy, so you can get over the one you like now.

Really serious rebound question.. please please help?

okay my boyfriend is 22. we grew up best friends for 11 years and never dated. we were always like brother and sister.. now were dating. he got a divorce with his ex wife sometime between last summer and march.. he recently dated a girl who knew back in the day and dated for 3 months starting in march.. he never kept her comments on myspace and everytime shed tried talking to him hed ignore her. he keeps my comments and even writes me on his aim profile.. and puts in a relationship on myspace where as for the girl of 3 months he didnt. he told me recently she was a rebound and he was sorry but she was.. and he never talks about his ex wife.. unless i bring it up.. and when i asked him how he felt about her.. he started cussing about how he wants her to die.. i want to know if im the rebound as well as the 3 month girl. he says he loves me and im the greatest girlfriend ever.. and if yall think im the rebound girl.. how can i change that.. please please help!!



Really serious rebound question.. please please help?

it sounds to me like he really likes you.

HELP this is serious, have i ruined my relationship?..?

In September 2006 everything was going great, I had just graduated high school the previous May and I was just having fun, being care free and testing the waters. Then a guy added my to myspace, we went on a date to the movies, and I decided to go with it, well....we were really extremely happy together (I was happy and in love with him) for about 5 months, and then I get this message on myspace from this girl that says he's cheating on me with her (I've now learned that she is like 250lbs and psychotic), and I believed that for a while, until I learned this, and my boyfriend's sincerity everytime that I ask, which has been a lot.



Well anyways, I got pregnant in March of 2007, and let me tell you, I was an emotional roller coaster...I accused him of everything possible, I was extremely clingy (going over to his house after midnight because he wouldn't call me or anything) so he saw me maybe a total of 15-20 times while I was pregnant. I had the baby in November 2007 and since then



HELP this is serious, have i ruined my relationship?..?

Ouch! That's tough!



HELP this is serious, have i ruined my relationship?..?

well, i think you need some therapy, someone unbiased to sit down and talk to about all these emotions, and probably meds for the bi-polar.



HELP this is serious, have i ruined my relationship?..?

You may have a double whammy here - post partum depression and bipolar disorder. Both are treatable. Talk to your doctor and get referrals.



You sound like you are hurting yourself as much as him and this needs to be worked out for your sake, his sake and most of all, the baby's sake.



Best of Luck to you all.

I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Right, theres this girl who I absolutely love. I've loved her for years. I really really like her, its such a deep love I've never felt anything like that for a girl. But the big problem is, ages ago when I was in school (Now I'm in College), I used to get on the same bus with her. I got her email adress and started talking to her. But I seriously messed it up, perhaps pushing her away, and I havent talked to her since. She never uses her email adress anymore and she hasn't got a myspace that I know of so I cant message her.



But I know where she lives, she lives pretty near to me. I was wondering if I should post her a Valentines Day card, cos I'm going through a really hard time with girls at the moment, and I have nothing to lose.



I really don't know whether I should?



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

For sure :) give her a card and tell her it's been a while you should catch up sometime maybe over a lunch or somethin. Make it sound like 2 friends...maybe somethin could come of it later on?



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

I really appreciate this. I am going to talk to her again and hopefully something can be made of it. Thanks so much for the confidence booster! Report It



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Do it!



It's Valentine's day, you've got nothing to lose, and it's pretty much now or never.



Go for it or you'll always regret it.



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

I recomend you to get her a valentines day card. every girl wants something for valentines day, makes her feel special that someones thinking about her...even if u messed things up...it still lets her know that u care and respect her...espeacially feeling bad of what u have done.



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

You could send her an annonomus card and not sign it but say from a long time ago friend. And just put the address on the card but no name, if she figures it out and finds you good and if not you have your answer to wether it will work out or not. Or you could really surprise her and bring her flowers with a huge apology and hope she has grown up enough to forgive you for your mistake. BTW how sever was the mistake? think about that too before doing anything and how you would react if someone you liked did it to you, then move forward. But I wish you luck as you and only you can really decide if you want her back in your life again or not, And she needs to decide to forgive you or not and welcome you back.



Best of luck and Happy Valentines day to you.



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Girls love Valentine's Day cards...It will probably make her smile just knowing that you're thinking of her...Go for it!



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

do it... annomonously if ur scared xx



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

Right, so you are so in love with her..okay, and you were once in contact with her then you messed it up and never talked to her since. So far, not good.



Now, that you are having trouble with the girls, you want to send her a Valentine's Day card??



Dude, don't bother because if she is smart, she will see you are just looking for someone to fill the void.



When you truly care about someone, you will work out things...even if you screwed things up. You don't just stop talking to them....capeche?



I don't know whether I should give her a Valentines Day card, should I?

As you say, you have got nothing to lose. If you do this though, my advise to you would be to play it cool. You dont want her to feel stalked!



You dont say how you messed up, I assume perhaps you were sending too many messages or got too suggestive. At some point, if ever your paths cross, in order to move forward in anyway you will have to appologize for the past and be prepared for a possible snub. It takes courage but if nothing else she will respect you



Good luck!

If your friend did this...?

I have an online friend of 9 yrs or so. We were in HS when we met, and we both kinda wanted to get together but we lived across the country. Then we grew older, I got married, he got mad and got married because I was, then got divorced, now we're friends again, then he really started going back to the past saying I'm the only girl he ever loved, and he wishes we get a chance to be together, I told him that I do love him, but I"m in love with my husband, then he all the sudden got engaged to this girl again, and no he says he can't talk to me. One week we're best friends and now were not. He left me a lame myspace message about how we can't talk and to not even reply to the message. We have always been honest with eachother, so Would you leave it alone, or would you email them??



If your friend did this...?

If you do email him, tell him that he needs some help. Then I wouldn't email him again. He may be a good friend but he is always going to be this way unless something else happens. You don't have to be mean to him, just quit talking to him. He will probably eventually find another person to obsess over.



If your friend did this...?

he's a dick who never grew up



If your friend did this...?

Leave it alone. Just be with your husband and be happy that you have him. Some things are better left alone and this guy is definately one of them.



If your friend did this...?

I'd wait about a month or two, then message him again.



If your friend did this...?

email them to say why aren't we talking just because u got engaged



If your friend did this...?

he's a boy not a man my goodness sake. Forget about him. behaving like a 13 yr old



If your friend did this...?

leave it alone. this is a weird relationship and should not go further than is necessary. both of u have grown up and live separates lives. u r being true and living life as a healthy adult. dont get tangle up in unnecessary mess. ur husband wont like it too. just let it go.



If your friend did this...?

Just let it be. You are married. Hopefully your husband is great, you say you love him. And this other guy is getting married. Let him be miserable and you be happy.



If your friend did this...?

hes not the type of friend you should have he just wanted you for something else he couldnt get it so hes mad and retaliated



If your friend did this...?

If I were you, I would just leave it alone. Because he seems too emotionally disturbed, where you are concerned. Does he know where you and your family live? I hope not!



If your friend did this...?

i would email him and tell him if he can't understand that you love your husband that he is not a very good friend and that all you are looking for is his friendship i have been there so i know it will be hard for you because you care for him as a friend but you should let him go



If your friend did this...?

You better don't reply him. Plzz don't kill him, u will never understand his feelings.

Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

http://www.myspace.com/tiffanymeadows



The girl on the left on the picture.



Since we kill other people, won't you kill her because she's showing her arms?



BTW, that's me before I became a Muslim.



I would like honest answers so people can understand the minds of Muslims.



This is what I would say if it wasn't me:



I love you and always listen your mother.



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

...you're....a....girl...?



*faints*



Lawl. Hey mind if I add you on myspace? :P



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

Must be your name. Sounds like Brian to the lazy eye @_@ Report It



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

wow... YOU MUST BE CRAZY... kill someone because thier arms are exposed...



pardon me for pointing this out but you said...



because "we kill other people" and then alluded to killing yourself all in the same sentence...



by an by, my mother is a muslim and she has never alluded to killing herself, or anyone else, because of her life before she became one...



but if your religious views are so zealous as to lead you to believe that killing anyone, for any reason other than protection of your person or that of another in an emergency is okay then you can think whatever you want...



now where was that irony again?



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

She's not a Muslim, so what's the problem. In fact if you read the Qur'an, there is very little attention paid to the uptight way in which women these days cover themselves. Yes, you should present yourselves modestly and with humility, yes it is better to cover your hair and not wear tight clothing. But is it necessary to cover your face? That woman might be a very nice person, even though she is dressed "inappropriately" as some might say.



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

Islam is more than just the outwardly look of devoutness.



Islam is the heart and soul of devotion to God, which may or may not show through the labels of modern man.



I would say she looks cool in the jeans :)



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

firstly i can't see and access the picture



secondly it is noting wrong with the website but except a bit scantily clad girls only



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

HUH?



I would not say anything to her. Its not my business if you, she whoever wears a short sleeved top. I am a Muslim revert to but i certainly do not advocate telling others what to wear and what to do with there lives i am free to cover as she is free to reveal. I live in the UK and am surrounded by more than just arm showing that's for sure and i never, ever feel compelled to tell them anything, why would i?



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

Your a girl!!! o.O



Sorry..... I apologise.



Well, it doesn't really matter, because you weren't a Muslim at that time. But I advise you to take it off now. You shouldn't be exposing yourself after you become a Muslim.



Repent for showing your body.



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

Pretty pretty.......!



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

Glad you became a Muslim, are you still showing your arms like that?



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

May the peace, blessing and mercy of God be upon you



Firstly, all praise is due to God for your embracing Islam



Ok, you must understand something "understand the minds of Muslims" is a complicated thing, there are 1.5 billion Muslims, from various places in the world, who have certain cultural biases that affect how they percieve and live out faith in God.



I am an American born Muslim, to Pakistani parents. I am 18 right now, and go to University.



I would say, that it is better for you to dress more conservatively now, as Muslim womens are precious, and valuable. They are not like other girls who in most cases have not much respect for themselves.



When you embraced Islam, God already forgave all your previous sins... So some of the people are incorrect in saying you should repent for showing your arms.



I would say, it is most important now for you to maintain praying the five daily prayers. It doesn't have to all at once, slowly start with 2-3 a day, then 4 and gradually work to getting up at dawn for the sole purpose of pleasing the All-Mighty.



Always seek forgiveness in all your prayers, and try to build what is called Taqwa this sometimes is translated as "fear of God", but that doesn't mean that you are sittin their shaking fearing God, rather it means "God-Consciousness". That is to be AWARE that God is ALWAYS watching you.



I am not sure if you are kidding or what "since we kill other people". These are the Taliban, and Al-Qaida people, they are committing numerous crimes, and for that God will judge them accordingly on the Day of Recompense.



Peace Be With You



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

before you become a muslim,that's your own buisness...after you become a muslim...it's also up to you wither to obey ALLAH or not.we don't kill muslim girls who don't cover up..we have millions of girls like this in our countries



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

How can you accept any Religion that allows you to kill someone for not worshiping correctly or dressing right. A true Religion states THOU SHALT NOT KILL. This is the main problem in the Middle East somehow someway people got it into their heads that killing someone for their beliefs is ok.



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

From the Holy Quran



[7:26] O children of Adam, we have provided you with garments to cover your bodies, as well as for luxury. But the best garment is the garment of righteousness. These are some of GOD's signs, that they may take heed.



Muslims? What would you tell that girl in the picture?

A female dog who know how to read and write but limited intelligence.jtm

Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

okay. i probably should just ask him.thats how we are.we tell each other anything. thing is we dont see each other that much anymore. i met him last year about this time and we were like the best of friends immediately. talking for hours and all. it even got to a point where he would say things like i was the sweetest girl he knew and literally in a myspace comment he said "i want you to know that i love and care about you with all my heart and hope that nothing ever happens to my marybeth" that was around december. since about feb. he doesnt talk to me like taht anymore. he used to like i.m. me and all saying hey cutie or just saying i love you a lot. i thought he had feelings for me, but have they gone away since he doesnt say those things anymore?



i mean just recently, i spent time with him and we cuddled and he kissed my on the cheek a few times. but at school, he treats me like im just a friend. whats up with that?



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

He wants to look available around other girls but when there are none around it's the case of "Oh, I guess you'll do for now" WAKE UP HONEY, your being USED....



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

move on



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

Um maybe hes intrested in a another gurl. maybe u embarrass him. theres lots of reasons. he probably gets really shy around otheres. dont worry, i would move on.



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

He is obviously pulling away from you. Maybe he is afraid of the closeness, of getting hurt or maybe he feels that things are just moving too fast. You need to ask him about his true feelings and intentions. Also, express your feelings if you are feeling hurt and confused.



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

somtimes boys are jerks and they may be somewhat unsure of what they are feeling and he may be scared. if he is an honest one, he will speak with actions.



Im still confused. so ill have to ask this again.. whats going on in his head?

Get over it and move on! If you cant see that he only want to be with you in front of ONLY MALE friends outside of school, because he has a girlfriend IN SCHOOL, then something is wrong with you!

Does she like me?

Ok,I met this girl 2 months ago and we've gotton close.And i really like her and i think she likes me.So in skool she always be passin me notes saying she loves me.And she be messging me with words like baby and girlfriend.And her b-day is in 2 days and she asked me if i would kiss her for her b-day and i said yes,but she said in a playful way but in a serious way at the same time.And 3 week ago we were siting outside on a bench and being really serious she aked me if i would ever date her,and i said yes,then she looked down smiling.But the thing is that she has a girlfriend that by wat her myspace says she really loves her.So do you think she likes me or what?



Does she like me?

I think she does like you.I think you should wait for her to break up with her girlfriend then take it from there.



Does she like me?

Yeah she could. Or she could just be a player. I mean on her bday still do it..Kiss her and see how she reactes and that might give you the answer :)



Does she like me?

I would say so yes, see how far you can take this and how it develops.. you'll know how you feel and hopefully she will voice how she truely feels as well.



Give it a go



Does she like me?

In my honest opinion, I would have to say that it's a 50/50 chance that she likes you. has she ever made any advances towards you or told you anything that she doesn't want repeated to someone else eg.. "I'm bi or i'm curious" In this case I would have to also say that if she says that she is playing, she might just be saying that to see what your reaction is going to be. as far as the myspace person, are you sure this girl exist. maybe you can find out and take it from there. I do hope this helps you.



Does she like me?

maybe she likes you but if she has a girlfriend then i would stay away...



Does she like me?

Could that 'girlfriend' on her myspace actually/secretly be you?



Go for the kissing bit and let the natural feelings of both of you take their course. Good luck!



Does she like me?

i think she really likes you..



but she has a girl so either wait for them to break up or 4get about her



dont break a couple up.. thats bad.

Come on explain this situation !?

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.



we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically



saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after



the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc



i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw



eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo



about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted



me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would



never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i



left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said



"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were



keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and



staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs



he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.



5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the



next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past



august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15



minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said



that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said



it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want



my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the



second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.



i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?



and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom



so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little



offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.



the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there



and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day



and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and



he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out



he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going



on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me



and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.



i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend



and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.



so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.



i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was



like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend



got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he



doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know



the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy



you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes



phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..



and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the



guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?



ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.



his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook



brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.



and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"



and we havent spoken in 3 months..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"



and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with



my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands



were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face



on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he



was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by



his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did



artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.



and now last night i hooked up with the guy i like's friend..and now the guy i like has a myspace title that says.."mostly i hate



to sleep alone." and now hes officially going out with his ex gf..and his myspace title is " i cant control myself."



1. did he like me and have feelings for me?



2. was he using me?



3. was i just a hookup?



4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?



5. did i pressure him or push him away?



6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?



7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?



8. why hasnt he been contacting me?



9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?



10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?



11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year just to have sex..even if he was having sex with other girls when i was in ny..i mean



we werent bf and gf?



12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?



13. why is he back with his ex gf?



14. does this sound like just friends or more than friends?



15. im beating myself up..thinking i did something wrong. did asking questions drive him away? or did i insult him and now



he doesnt like me anymore because i ask if hes using me?



16. do you think maybe he was falling in love with me and it scares him?



Come on explain this situation !?

i read some of it but i cant read anymore....gosh



anyways i think you need to have a serious talk with the guy u like.... seeking advice from a random stranger isnt going to get u the answers you want. also in one part u said that you are 15...well what the hell? what are you doing hooking up with a random guy on a cruise and having sex with him!!!



PEACE



Come on explain this situation !?

Do you really expect people to read that!



Why dont you talk to a friend about it...



Come on explain this situation !?

i thought you could only fit so many characters into the explanation of a question...you couldn't possibly have kept things under that number...and do you expect anyone to waste their time answering 16 questions about this whole situation?



Come on explain this situation !?

omg, is this for real? if so, move on.........

Help Wanted!!!?

I want to make a myspace layout, but i need the pic to put as the background. I want it to say "I love my Vivace Girls! Raise the V!"



I would like a picture of something pink and black (those are our colors) with stars!



Vivace is a show choir. So who everr's pic I like the best I will use and give them 10 points! Thank you!!



I know I put this in the beauty and style section, but I though tyou would have the best taste.



Help Wanted!!!?

www.mygen.com

Past or Present?

An age old question. I have known this one girl for a long time...more than 4 years. We have dated, and at one point were very in love. We broke up twice. First time she left me, second time i left her. We ended on a real bad note after the second time, but just recently around what would have been out 4year ann, she contacted me.



I'm a musician and song writer and i write about her a lot. My band just released a cd so i started posting lyrics on myspace and well she picked up.



Problem: I'm dating a girl that i've known for about two years but have been dating for about 8months. i love her...but part of me is still very much in love with the other girl...she and i have just been through a lot. Now that we've started talking again there's a peaceful feeling that i haven't felt in a long time...i'm trying to be just friends but i know sometimes i say things that hint i still have feelings for her...i'm just kinda lost cause i don't wanna hurt anyone...suggestions?



Past or Present?

There is no simple answer for you... Someone will get hurt. I'm in the same boat on a different scale and as lost for an answer as you are. You have a rocky past with your old GF, but there is something there. You need to address those feelings. If you bury or ignore them they will resurface. Mine did after 26 years. Good Luck

My friend.?

My friend i think mite still be having troubles getting over his girlfriend he 18 and she was his first really true love. he wrote this on his myspace page



...say you have really had that true feeling for someone for a certain amount of school years and they have no idea how u felt. it feels like running in a dream and not being able to move. the feeling is there but you cant run to your destination. all you want to reach is her. you have absolutely no idea how she feels or even knows if you exist but when its all said and done and relationships and loveless flings come and go with different girls all you truly desire is her and her feelings as they gradually leave you in shadows. i wish i could tell you.



i no it was hard for him but its almost been a year, we met last year and became best friends, were like the same person. I dont no how i sud approach him about this. Or if i even sud. I cant tell if he depressed or watever. plz suggetions



My friend.?

its a difficult one!! u need to help this person get over this girl, i no im statin the obvious but heres some tips!!



STEP 1: Spend time with your friend, ideally in person.



STEP 2: Let your friend talk. If he or she is not talking, encourage it. Keep lots of tissues handy.



STEP 3: Try distractions. Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities and games are good possibilities.



STEP 4: Indulge your friend with chocolates, massages, facials, shopping sprees - whatever lets him or her concentrate on pleasure instead of pain.



STEP 5: Send a card to lift your friend's spirits if you can't be there in person.



STEP 6: Be patient. Some things take a long time to get over.



Even if you think the breakup was your friend's fault, now is not the time to say so.



Avoid such phrases as, "There are other fish in the sea." These comments won't be helpful.



Be careful not to bash the ex too much. That kind of talk may make your friend distrust his or her own judgment, or distrust yours

How Do I design/paint my own t-shirts?? Something like these..links inside..?

I really love this guys style. And a few other ladies who make their own shirts %26amp; sell them. I want to make them for myself though. How do they do it?? With the bright color graphics?



http://www.myspace.com/yummieclothing



http://www.myspace.com/that_girl_kesshia



How Do I design/paint my own t-shirts?? Something like these..links inside..?

I used to own a heat pressing business making t-shirts the only way I know of getting the bright colors like you are wanting is either threw silk screen or buying the pre-made heat transfers which can be pretty expensive to buy the machines. I think that if you bought some iron on transfers for your printer (sold at wal-mart and office supply store) and then applied them to your shirt that then you might be able to paint bright colors on top using the transfer as your guide you could also add glitter, beads,ribbons etc.. for personalization. Hope this helps



How Do I design/paint my own t-shirts?? Something like these..links inside..?

well you can go to office depot and get the iron on transfer sheets and then design stuff on your computer and print it on to the paper then iron it on to your tee shirt



How Do I design/paint my own t-shirts?? Something like these..links inside..?

wow.that is good.hope can give you inspiration



http://www.in-brands.com/Simplified/Prod...

Confused about this guy?

met this guy back in december, he was a personal trainer, and he nice, and cute, and he would flirt and stuff with me, and even went as far to tell me that if i wanted to hang out to call him, and maybe we could go to a movie, but I never did, but I would still see him at the gym, and he would ask me where my man was at, and stuff like that, so a few months back I called him to try to set something up, and he tells me that he's broke we'll go out next week comes, then he says the same thing, then a few weeks past and he says he's going throguh family stuff, and he'll get back to me, so I see him at the gym, and HE brings up if we could go out again, and I'm like okay..so we reserve a date, and he flaked, so i guess you can see where this is going, so i asked him if he like me more than a friend and he tells me, he says even though he find me to be attractive, he jut doesn't see me in a romantic way, and if I wanted to talk about it we can later, I never called him back because there



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this was about a month ago, so the next day after our discussion I notice that he changes his relationship status from single to in a relationship" on his myspace page, and then all of a sudden this girl is leaving him messages saying she loves him, and she can't wait to see him, I'm like Huh, he told me he was single, and now he's calling her the love of his life , I'm confused..



Confused about this guy?

Be happy, be VERRRRY HAPPY that you did not get involved with him...



don't be confused, don't be sad, don't be disappointed... BE VERY HAPPY... he is a flake and doesn't deserve you!!



do not show him you are disappointed or angry... the best revenge is to be happy. you will find someone better!!



Confused about this guy?

Girl,



What is there to be confused about? He does not want you. And the fact that he was broke should have you running in the other direction.



You wasted so much time on this joker and he strung you along like a string of pearls. I say, shake it off. He is not worth your precious energy.



Confused about this guy?

Don't waste your time with him. He is playing games. Sounds like he was in a relationship with this girl but probably seperated from her for awhile. Now he is back with her so he has no use for you. He was looking when she wasn't around but now that she is back in the picture, he's not looking anymore. Move on.

Should I still be friends with him?

met this guy back in december, he was a personal trainer, and he nice, and cute, and he would flirt and stuff with me, and even went as far to tell me that if i wanted to hang out to call him, and maybe we could go to a movie, but I never did, but I would still see him at the gym, and he would ask me where my man was at, and stuff like that, so a few months back I called him to try to set something up, and he tells me that he's broke we'll go out next week comes, then he says the same thing, then a few weeks past and he says he's going throguh family stuff, and he'll get back to me, so I see him at the gym, and HE brings up if we could go out again, and I'm like okay..so we reserve a date, and he flaked, so i guess you can see where this is going, so i asked him if he like me more than a friend and he tells me, he says even though he find me to be attractive, he jut doesn't see me in a romantic way, and if I wanted to talk about it we can later, I never called him back because there



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this was about a month ago, so the next day after our discussion I notice that he changes his relationship status from single to in a relationship" on his myspace page, and then all of a sudden this girl is leaving him messages saying she loves him, and she can't wait to see him, I'm like Huh, he told me he was single, and now he's calling her the love of his life , I'm confused



Should I still be friends with him?

Sounds like a bit of a flake. I would still be nice if i see him but forget Buddy Buddy. and if he askes you to go out in the future....Dont walk away RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

Should I play hard to get with this girl?

I sent her flowers, she said she loved them, but also mentioned she was talking to another guy and didn't want to lead me on. She scheduled to hang out with me yesterday, seemed all excited about it the night before but when I called the next day to see if she still wanted to and she said was sick and said she wouldn't be home most of the night, but wanted to hang out later that night when she got home. People kept inviting me to a party so I went ahead and told her I couldn't see her last night because of the party. She said ok, have fun. Later that night sent me a message on myspace saying she loved my flowers and that she'd talk to me later while I was at the party. I texted her around noon today to see if she wanted to hang out today, but it's been two hours with no response. Is she playing hard to get or what? If she waits too long to get back to me should I say i'm busy already. I don't want to seem too into her, even though I am.



Should I play hard to get with this girl?

SHE DOESN'T LIKE U!!!! GET OVER YOURSELF!!!



U DON'T HAVE TO PLAY HARD-TO-GET!!! %26amp; SHE ISN'T PLAYING AHRD TO GET, SHE'S JUST BEING POLITE!!!



SRRY TO SAY, BUT GET OVER IT!!!



Should I play hard to get with this girl?

fyi, caps lock was on when i was writing i didn't want 2 rewrite No guy broke my 閳?i have experience w/guys who like me %26amp; i don't like them this girl is nice but she doesn't like u girls don't wanna hurt guys' feelings if they like u There閳ユ獨 a dif b/w liking some1 %26amp; feeling bad 4 them email 2 no wut Report It



Should I play hard to get with this girl?

Well what I see in this case that she might think that YOU are playing hard to get, it might sound weird but maybe that's what she is trying to do too just try to give her more attention and talk to her more because maybe that's what she wants. GOOD LUCK



Should I play hard to get with this girl?

I hate to be the one to tell you what you don't want to hear but. The girl that you are chasing IS really interested in the other dude and not so much you. She is gaming you though. She uses your affection to make herself feel better when she the other guy either isn't paying attention or has not asked her out yet. My advice is DO NOT send her any more flowers until she earns them by keeping a play date. She knows she has you and there for she isn't making the effort to maintain you because she knows that your ok being treated like dirt and still will hang around hoping that tomorrow will bring you your wish. Find a different girl to give your heart to.



Should I play hard to get with this girl?

unlike guys, girls give up when guys play hard to get so don't. Try asking her out in person to a specific place and a time that is set. let her know that u think she is a cool person and ask if u r waisting ur time and need to move on. that way u can still keep ur dignity even if she says no.

What type of person would like to date me?

I am 15 year old girl with short dyed-black hair. I'm pretty quiet and shy around new people, But if you get to know me I'm a pretty fun person with odd quirks, hobbies and addictions (not drugs mind you) I have weird thoughts all the time (like my contemplations on the letter Q)



First name: Joie



Status: pessimist(sp?)



Addicted to: anime, comic books, deviantart.com



Hobbies: Drawing and such



Intelligence level: pretty damn smart ; )



Stereotyped as: goth



IS: Just a weirdo with an aprecciation of dark things



Future dream career: Comic book author and illustrator ^^



Body type: lol more to love and about 5'9"



my myspace ----%26gt; http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus...



or if you just wanna see my shiz ----%26gt; http://weirdoonwhitebread.deviantart.com...



What type of person would like to date me?

i would love to date you.



What type of person would like to date me?

welp, sorry not me BUUUUUT, i think u sound like u need a hot scene boy with short black choppy hair, a lip ring, and a broken heart %26lt;3



What type of person would like to date me?

i would date you



What type of person would like to date me?

If I were 15 or so I would. You seem to be very interesting and have a lot of weird imagination... I like that.



What type of person would like to date me?

I am 42/m, I would really like to date you, now a days I dont get any young gals anyway.



Just kidding

Is it too dramatic?

I posted a question last week or the week before asking what I should do about my boyfriend being friends on MySpace w/ a girl he used to sleep with. To specify - he was seeing her before we got back together but when we were still sleeping together. We dated for 4 years and seperated a year and a half ago. We just got back together a month ago. In that year %26amp; a half that we were seperated we still slept together and hung out but weren't officially together. He just met this girl earlier this year and only was w/ her for 3 months but supposively told her he loved her and all this other stuff...



He thinks that me being mad at him for adding her as a friend off and on is too dramatic and that I shouldn't worry about it. She also says they are just friends. If that's so - then why do they keep deleting and adding each other?



Is this really grounds to leave him? I'm confused. Besides this one problem everything is going really good with him.



Is it too dramatic?

id try to stick it out, give him the benefit of the doubt. but if youre too stressed over it then leave him. just keep your gaurd up, but dont obessess over it.



Is it too dramatic?

That's silly... she's a part of his life and you need to deal with that. It's not like he's sleeping with her now. She's just a friend. You don't get to determine who someone else is friends with...



Is it too dramatic?

If everything else is going great, and he's not cheating on you, then leave it alone. I'm friends with my ex, but that's all there is to it.



Is it too dramatic?

you don't sleep with your friends...



she was more than a friend at one time...so its prolly a bad idea...



Is it too dramatic?

find one of us "2%" and get a Man, not a boy...



Is it too dramatic?

I can see i would get mad if someone did that to me. But really you shouldnt worry about it. Add her and try to maybe be sorta friends with her. If you know her better then you will trust him better.



Is it too dramatic?

Idk, but i know myspace is one big drama fest!! ive seen friends relationships get ruin over myspace!!!



Is it too dramatic?

Hi Nicole,



It sounds like you both enjoy your freedom. In being able to spend time together, get intimate, but not be labeled as a couple.



Is it possible this girl he dated used control tactics on him? For example : dated him but did not sleep with him. Ignored his calls, or was distant, to draw him closer to her? These are effective tools and are probably what drove him to tell her he loved her and the flip-flop friends/not friends on MySpace.



Maybe he feels comfortable with you and takes you for granted because your situation has always been there for him to count on. With that, his interest is piqued by other women and he feels challenged to chase this one.



I have no business giving you advice. This is just my take, based on what you have said.



good luck ~



Is it too dramatic?

i dont think that it is grounds to leave him but u need to explain that ur jealouse and u dont want hime to talk to her because u dont think its right then if that doesent work then take further actions if he wont stop talking to her there has to be a reason do some research and find out why



Is it too dramatic?

no i added my crushes girlfriend well ex-gf... but he added someone he thought I liked. soo... yeah



Is it too dramatic?

Well. Let's see. You are worried enough to ask the question. You are worried enough to put it up twice? My, sounds to me like you just want some good old "agreement". Someone to say YES YOU ARE RIGHT. RIP HIS MANHOOD TO SHREDS. Dear. You know the answer. You know what you need to do. Question is are you willing to suffer the consequences. To be blunt, there are more fish in the sea, this little guppy ain't gonna make it anyway.



Is it too dramatic?

Due to the off again on again nature of this relationship, I would say that you are casual and not mutual marriage material. The pattern of we're together...we're broke up ...means to tell me that you guys cannot resolve conflict by doing anything more than separating. Is this the way you want to live your life?



Or do you want to find someone who will grow and mature and find better ways of conflict resolution...That wants to be with you and only you? That you never have to worry about who he is firends with becuase you trust him to make positive life affriming choices?



I know that this sounds trite....But really What do you want for your future.



I would never ever put up with this kind of I love you today not tommorrow maybe next tuesady type treatment. Notice I didn't even comment on the "should he be allowed to be friends with so and so" because I do not think it is the real issue.



They keep deleting and adding each other because of the aforementioned pattern of I love you I hate you...Good for soap ratings...NOT GOOD for everyday life!!!



Is it too dramatic?

if something really bothers you ...and ur bf doesnt think that its that much of a deal..then it will cause conflict and eventually lead you to have trust issues dealing with him... so...if he doesnt take into consideration ur feelings then thats ground for breaking up..beside them ex's are only there to cause conflict eventually...i wouldnt be friends with my ex..there ex for a reason... many may tell you ur being insecure..but i've been there and i know the end result...its not good..so listen to your gut/heart it never steers you wrong...if he loves you he will comply..if he doesnt kick his a** to the curb



Is it too dramatic?

yes you are being dramatic. things are fine with you both..they are just friends..get over it.

What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

because thers this girl at school and if i look at her myspace photos, her eyelashes are so dark and thick. if i take pictures my eyelashes dont show at all because my mascara isnt dark and thick but hers show up. i want that soooo bad but i dont know what mascara 2 use. rite now im using lash stylist from maybelline. and i love it cus it has a brush and its really easy to apply but it doesnt come out to thick. i buy like really black colors but it doesnt seem to come out like that girls. and i dont want it very clumpy. girls? answer from experianceeee



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

she probably applies one layer, lets it dry and applies another, thats what i do. i use maybelline waterproof greatlash in dark brown and it makes my eyes really pop



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

NYC its cheap and it doesn't clump but it comes out thick.



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

Lancome. It's on the pricey side but i have used about 15 different brands and my two favorites are lancome which you can find in macys.. and bourjois which you can find in sephora. lancome is thick and dark, but it doesn't extend your last. bourjois is more natural, thick, and extra long.. it's not jet black though..it's more like a ashy black but i love it too.



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

I use the cover girl lash exact...the brush is so amazing! No clumps at all and thick lashes!



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

XXL by maybelline, the trick to make it not clump is just use the black end, it really dark and it applys an insane amount of volume withought the white side. trust me



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

A friend of mine who went to beauty school told me to put one layer of lengthening mascara (I use maybelline sky-high) then a second layer of thickening mascara ( I use maybelline volume express). If you want your lashes to pop always use black. Also, curl your eyelashes with an eyelash curler. Hope this helps!



What mascara comes out really thick and dark???

Rimmel lash MAXXX is smashing. I put two layers and my eyelashes are OUT THERE.



Also, try fake eyelashes with your mascara, it's absolutely stunning.

I can't tell her!!!!!!!!! Help me with this one! Im scared!?

Ok...me and this girl have a true love story...but only one thing is in the way..but that is irrelavant...I want to tell her i love her but i cant..im too scared..she is 21 and i am 33...we are close but she doesnt know how i feel about her..can some one tell her for me? PLEASE!



Here is her myspace:



http://www.myspace.com/whatyouknowaboutt...



Thank you!



I can't tell her!!!!!!!!! Help me with this one! Im scared!?

If you cant come to tell her yourself..then you don't love her. What do you have to lose by saying how you truly feel? You'll just waste time over thoughts and being nervous.

Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

i have a best guy friend who i'm starting to fall for. i really feel comfortable around him and he doesn't judge me at all. a few months ago he asked me out right after a tough break up with my ex bf and i turned him down. ever since then we've still been really close and now over the summer he basically calls me everyday to hang out since we live in the same neighborhood. he's met pretty much my whole family and they all love him. but i'm not sure if he still likes me though? when i'm with him he talks about other girls he likes and on his myspace he devotes quotes and pictures and all that to the girls he 'likes'. i'm not even on his top anymore. he always sticks up for me though. like when his friends say i'm not that pretty he would disagree with them and say im 'cute' or 'beautiful'.i know that should be a sign that he likes me, but he just does other things that make me think he doesn't even notice me. what do you guys think? b/c i dont want to fall to deep if he doesnt even care



Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

i think he still likes you, but because you turned him down in the beginning he's afraid of being turned down again if he still likes you. you may not be on his top anymore because he doesn't want you to think that he's still likes you because he thinks you only like him as a friend. if you guys are such good friends, clarify things with him.



Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

well only one way to find out



Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

I think u should ask him out now. Its sounds like he cares for u but when u turn him down he felt bad so he started to move on so now ur his friend.



Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

it really sounds like he still likes you. go for it! good luck!



Best guy friend...does he like me or not?

Hey, kid. Listen up. Life is about chances and the cumulative results of our decisions. Before you and a whole generation try to make up titles like "best guy friend", realize it for what it is. You may just like this guy enough to take a chance on a relationship with. If you are upfront and tell him how you feel and what you are expecting, none of the piss-ante crap you mentioned about myspace. Ask yourself why you feel the way you do. Where you say "b/c i dont want to fall to deep if he doesnt even care", it's better to take that chance than to live with regret.



BTW, "cute" is nothing. "Beautiful" is. It means he sees your soul. Has he ever called you "smart" or "intelligent"? Watch for that. That means he sees beyond the punks around him.

Need advice PRONTO. please.?

so i started going to a tutoring program after school. well, i started talking to this guy i had liked forever because he was also in there. well we got really close, and started getting serious telling each other "i love you" and stuff. he has a girlfriend that he is engaged to. but it was our little secret. i asked him why he couldnt just break up with her and he didnt say anything back. ( by the way, his fiance moved to a diff. school, has no myspace or cell phone, so they NEVER get to talk!) well this girl i seriously HATE got on myspace and printed our comments out and was showing everybody. now because of that were supposed to "pretend like we dont know each other til schools out because he doesnt want anyone to get hurt" he was talking about me by the way and also, school gets out in 2.5 days. well now, since we have to "pretend we dont even know each other" things are getting worse. he doesnt answer to my calls or texts. is he leading me on or does he really care about "us??"



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

Find your own man homeweaker, bad karma will be heading your way



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

I 4 GOT YA QUESTION. SORRY. :-(



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

he cares about you, but he is trying to save the relationship with the other girl so no one would get hurt.



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

Give up on him. It sounds like he was leading you on.



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

It sounds like this guy is just leading you on. I think I know how he feels at least, because I was in a similar situation, but I was the one engaged. Honestly, I really liked this guy, we were going into similar careers, me a nurse anesthetist and he an anesthesiologist. I had kids and was engaged, but to a complete jerk who I felt stuck with. I really liked this guy, especially because we had so much in common, talked all the time, and he didn't mind that I had kids. When push came to shove and my fiance even had a hint that I was "talking" to this guy, he flipped out and I stopped talking to him. The funny thing is that it was just a few days before finals. My best advice is to give up on it. If he wants to be with his woman, what can you do? I mean, he may like you but feel obligated to the one he has asked to marry him. I hope everything works out for the best hun!



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

Leave the whole situation alone ....stay in school.



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

He may care some or he wouldn't have been with you in the first place, but he is a royal jerk!!! Why would you want to be with someone who is lying to another girl to be with you. He is not only lying to her he isn't making his feelings for you public. You are #2 all the way around. You should never take a back seat to another woman. Further more if he is doing it to her who is to say he doesn't have a 3rd girl in the mix somewhere? Also who's to say if you were the "one and only" that he wouldn't have a girl behind your back?



I have been the other woman(like you)and I am here to tell you that is all I ever was. He will never change. If he truely loved you he would've broke up with her and dated you and you only. Run as far away from him as you can girl!!!!!!



Need advice PRONTO. please.?

Sorry...I fell asleep halfway through reading your question...

Should I have written this letter to my ex?

Okay so me and my ex were seriously together for over two years. When we first met everything seemed to be going okay. I admit sometimes I acted like a child and gave in too much. I gave everything I had into this relationship, and so did she. But after over a year things seemed to change for my ex-gf. (Broke up with me once, shame on me) She started telling me how to run things, what to do (like I was a child), pressuring me to get her a promise/committment ring. I gave everything she wanted all the love and support, but at the same time, she didn't know what she wanted in life and didnt seem to return all the feelings. (Broke up with me twice, shame on her) During that last year she had denied me as a bf, while she was on a solo trip to Vegas, always begged for me to come over to her place when she knew I was working, tried to change who I was as a person. She is the type of person that argues a lot, and is afraid to get criticized when someone criticizes her. So I got tired one day, about 4 weeks ago, chewed her out a little bit for telling me how to run my life, left my car in tears. Before that I give her the option of breaking up w/ me. So then, two weeks later, she calls me up twice in one week, one for something different another day she needed help with something, in which I think she was setting me up for something and she says shes just checking on me. But I told her I couldnt help her since I was busy with a friend that day. So then a week later, my best friend tells me she has a new boyfriend, which we and our neighbors know this is a rebound bf. I have told her that I don't want any contact from her til she grows up. Sometimes, I feel this is my fault completely, and that I gave in too much throughout the last year, and for standing up to her like that on that very last day. And again, last night she called to check up on me and asked me if I was ready to be friends w/ her. This is the third time in four weeks that she has called to check up on me, and she kept saying to me she thought I was going to call her. I dont wanna be rude but I believe in not contacting her, but I'm the one that waits for her to call and like a DAMN FOOL I always pick up just to see what she wants, nothing more. And everytime I pick up the phone, I always keep it brief. First time she called after our breakup it was for something different. Second time that she called, I mentioned to her that I was in class and that I had a 'date' to prepare for. And she gave me a SURPRISED "Oh.....I'm sorry, I didn't mean to disturb you. I was just checking on you". Was that childish of me to do that, tell her what I'm doing? I realize it was, but I think I did it out of anger, even though I did have a date. Any opinions? Third time, she called called me in the afternoon while I was at work. And again, she said "Hey, what are you doing" (very softly). So I responded, "I'm busy right now, what do you want?". She says "I'm just checking on you, are you ready to be friends?". I didn't give her a straight yes or no answer. I may never give her a straight answer. Tell me if I'm wrong to do that. But anyways, if she does call again, I will just simply say "Listen, I'm busy" or "I've got company over, right now. MAYBE I'll talk to you l8r". That third time, she had asked if I'm ever going to call her, because she said "I thought YOU were going to call me when you are ready?" And this was only 4 weeks after she broke up with me. I'm not ready, but I feel that she is rushing me when she says that. Yes, I did tell her I may call her. Now when I said that and she may have waited, am I playing mind games with her or not? Because it seems like she may be expecting my call at anytime. Now my friend says that he saw on her myspace profile that she feels loved. I am assuming and know this is from her rebound boyfriend. Is that possible to feel love from a rebound boyfriend after only 4 weeks of her breaking up with me? And why would she be trying to call me three times within the last four weeks, just to simply check up on me while she had the nerve to ask if she wanted to be friends w/ me? Even if she has a bf now, I wrote/sent her a letter through regular mail stating this:



"Dear Mary Grace,



We have known each other for almost 3 years, but its been long enough for us to know that we did and still care about each other, I know that is NOT going to change, but I think that your expectations towards our relationships were a little too high for both of us to handle. Life, be it yours or others, isn't a game.



You say that you were in love with me and we told each other our dreams of having kids and a family. You know what the saying goes "While I have a Coke, she thinks of marriage?" In this case I think it fully applies because NEITHER one of us were ready. So before things move to a different level, I think it would be best if you stopped contacting me for about while. I will call you when I'm ready.



I am incapable of hurting you, like you did to me, so please consider this to be a proof of how much I still care for you. At the moment, I want to be on my own, "having my Coke, and hanging about".......Trust me, if I'm telling you these things, its because I have always been honest w/ you. And because I don't want us to hate each other, like YOU THINK I am hating you. I don't hate you. It's not in my vocabulary.



But I just want you to know that I do respect you as a friend, but I also want you to



respect me when I tell you I need my space right now, to figure myself out. I'll call



you when I'm ready. In the meantime, do what you have to do, and I'll do what I have



to do. And I will never forget you. So don't worry about me. I'll be fine."



Now, is there a particular 'waiting game' on both of our parts? With a girl like her



how long would it take for her respond to something like this? And is it wrong for me



to send her a letter like this? And if you were Mary Grace how would you respond?



She was the type of girl that needed to be pampered, have someone understand her,



always planned out her future, always needed to have a boyfriend to run her life. etc.



And what would a girl like her be thinking? I'm 30 and she is 25



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

you are writing to much!!!



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

This somewhat sounds like my ex (who I broke up with twice and...well, look up a recent question I asked here heh)



The best advice I can give for this situation is to let it go. Don't let her drag you down with her. If you've broken up a certain amount of times and really gone through everything you say you have, it's just not worth it. If she keeps coming back, it honestly isn't for love, it's for something else. Turn away and don't look back.



My ex...sure, it was great in the beginning months, it almost always is, but it wasn't long before it just became a big pain. Her constant calls when I was at work or busy. I talked to her anyway almost each night, she knows I'd call when I wasn't busy and ugh...she just didn't understand.



Turn and don't look back man, just turn and don't look back.



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

If I were you, I would stop answering the phone if you are serious about moving on. This will give her a very clear message that you don't want to be contacted for a while. Every time you answer the phone, she thinks its okay to keep calling you. Some people have a hard time letting go, it sounds like both of you do.



Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone so soon after breaking up with another...



The waiting part is until you feel like you can be just friends with her, and feel that she can just be friends with you - and stay within those boundaries you set forth. It doesn't matter if you shouldn't have sent the letter or not..you already did..so my suggestion would be to stick by what you asked and dont pick up the phone when she calls and don't talk to her when she responds to the letter - because it sounds like she will.



If you are ready to move on, then do it, no matter how hard it may be. And don't let her keep calling you, it will only be worse for both of you.



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

I think you handled it quite well. The email was well written and I believe there's no easier way to tell her. If she still calls you after this, you might want to try to just switch to a new number. I know you still love her and it's difficult to separate yourself from her, but if you really want to get out from this relationship, you must do what's best to detach. Good luck!



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

wow, you're 30 and she's 25. i was expecting something more like 17 and 18...



but um.. you should move on. you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. she's already moved on, or trying to at least, being that she keeps calling you.



change you number, or just stop accepting her calls, you need to lose contact with her for awhile. give it 2 months at least, and you'll feel a lot better. i promise.



Should I have written this letter to my ex?

Put her in the past and get a life of your own. It is obvious that she didn't care for you as you did for her. It seems to me that you were just a life style for her, as easily as she replaced you... like you said "she always needed to have a boyfriend to run her life". You aren't the one playing games, it has been her all along. Don't wait for her to respond to your letter, although it was nice of you to tell her that you still care for her she probably wont take it to heart. Move on and find someone who you don't have to struggle with to enjoy a relationship.

Theres this girl I really like...?

Theres this girl that i really really like but i havent seen her for a while and when i sent her an "i love you" message on myspace, she asked if it was for her or if i was just joking. I think she might have a bf now. seriously what should i do??



i dont know what i would do without her. i really like her a lot.



Theres this girl I really like...?

If she doesn't know you like her, DO NOT send I love you messages to her. Just start talking to her and see where it leads. Ask questions, but not personal questions and don't get all freaky on her either. Don't come out and ask if she has a b/f, it'll come out sooner or later. Just be casual at first let her know you are interested but be suttle about it.



Good luck with that......



Signed,



An Adult



Theres this girl I really like...?

You're welcome Report It



Theres this girl I really like...?

The best thing to do is let her know that you have feelings for her. Now I am not saying run up to her and yell "I love you", but maybe let her know that you would like to be more than just friends. But keep in mind that she may not feel the same way you do and let her know that even if she does not, that you would like to continue to be friends. It is always better to be friends than not to have the person in your life at all.



Theres this girl I really like...?

The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel and hope she feels the same way. Worst case she has a boyfriend, it's not going to be the end of the world.



Theres this girl I really like...?

Well first off, don't send her a message on myspace if you feel that way about her, talk to her in person, not even on the phone, because then you will be able to see her real reaction and know for sure how she feels about you. Also don't go telling girls you love them if they didn't even know that you liked them, it could scare them off. You should talk to her about who she likes , so then you'll know if you even have a chance with her, and if you don't think you do, then don't tell her you love her, tell her you were just kidding about the message as well.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

ok, your boyfriend texts two particular girls on his cell phone, but he insists he isnt%26gt; or wouldnt cheat.



im a jelous person... but the thing is i cheated on him a month



ago, i told him... im never going to cheat again!! but he wont beleive me!! im so in love with him i dont want him to do the same to me.. :(



but yet, he talks to these two girls that are his "friends" on myspace and he TEXTS them occasionally... what the heck?!?! would he cheat? why would he need to talk to them, he has me for a reason right? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? honestly... am i trippen? lol i just dont want to become to jelouse and accuse him and push him to cheat on me because i assume too much



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

As a general theory because you have cheated you will always feel like he may cheat on you. its called projection I beleive. This is a scary situation because, in his mind, he has a free pass to cheat because you did it to him. You cant tell him not to text those girls, because he's just gonna say "what, because you cheated you think im like that". Deal with your jealousy, try your best to keep it to yourself. What you should do is find out as much as you can about these girls, to the point where you can talk to them on your own. Ever heard of keep your enemies closer. Will this is the time you should. The best way to avoid being cheated on is repent for your mistake everyday, and Karma may forgive you



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You cheated on HIM and you're worried about a couple female friends of his? Wow. You're a real piece of work.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You are the offender, but yet, you accuse him.



Check yourself lady, you are the problem.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

a) he is allowed to have friends that are girls



b) you cheated on him, paybacks a b****



c) Why don't you meet these girls and find out whats going on



d) Take his phone and read the text messages hes sending



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You guys are cheating on each other.



Now, I think that you should break up with him and forget him. You should think about things over while you're single. At least 3 months without a boyfriend. Think about what's right and wrong. Like the mistakes you did.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

I dont really know your situation but maybe a few things..



1. you are overacting



2. you'r boyfriend is a jerk and is cheating on you



3. He is getting back at you



4. the girls that he texts do not like you so they are planning to get him from you...



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

texting someone is not cheating! why isn't he allowed to have friends? my advice is calm down until you have REAL proof.. then you can freak out :)



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

my x bf was like that...most of my friends are guys so i talk to them nd hang out with them all the time, he got really really jel....he didnt cheat on me or nything but it pissed him off...specially cuz some of my guy friends are a lil touchy nd stuff....you should trust him, hes allowed to have best friends..that just so happen to b girls!



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

Without complete trust, there is no relationship. Wait until you both mature a bit.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You need to relax. What your feeling is what a lot of people that cheat feel. Your scared that he is going to cheat on you because you did. That might be true, or it might not be. I have seen both scenerious take place.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

is this because you want to be the only one in this relationship that cheat or are you afraid that the girl he cheets with will make you look like the tramp you jsut told us about.



man girls are so wacked when it comes to them doing something but get pissed off if the guy even thinks about it.



get a grip



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

If you want his undivided attention (ugh) just



don't talk about who he texts and who he talks to.



Be cool when he's around so he doesn't know you are already bonkers over him. Good grief there are a million guys out there, why tie yourself down with one? There's plenty of time for that when you are tired of play and want to settle down. Of course I chose to be settled down here with my cat. It's so peaceful and I don't have to tell anyone where I'm going or when to expect me. When you have that attitude the boys will flock around you.



I have a real attitude. It seems to attract a lot of women and even girls who are with another guy.



Have fun.



MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

so if he can't talk to other girls....you're obviously not talking to other guys right? i mean why would you need to when you've got him? doesn't work like that does it. grow up girlie...jealousy is not attractive and if you are so in love...why did you cheat in the first place?....work yourself out sweetie. you obviously have some commitment problems as well as low self esteem. talk to some one that can really help like a therapist hunny. hope this helps.

Help me out?

thxs ok theres this girl i think im in love with and about a mounth ado i asked her out and she said that she wasent ready to date again cuz she had just broken up with someone well i still love her and want to kno what to do cuz now she posted a bullitien on myspace that said she was single and hateing it help me out



Help me out?

Reply back. "Why do you hate it so much?" Or something along the lines of that.



Help me out?

talk to her ask her if she wants to hang out go to the movies



Help me out?

go for it!



tell her to give you a chance.



Help me out?

o geez that sucks. just talk to her like normal like asking her out didnt happen. if things change... youl know... it happend to me



Help me out?

Be likee if your single..



i can help you out



than ask her outtt..



Help me out?

nahh kid, id say leave her alone, it sounds from her bulletin that she didnt want to hurt your feelings when she said she wasnt ready



but i might be wrong



Help me out?

that means should doesn't like you dude. Or you can buy an alien changeing robot and get her in tha adventure of a life time.



Help me out?

ask her again



Help me out?

It sounds like she spends some time on internet.



I would send her a friendly e-mail asking how she is holding up etc. She seems to be lonely so I think may be this is a good time for you to show her some caring.Start out slowly and really try to be her friend first.



Help me out?

Ok first of all you have to give her space. Then casually ask her if she would like to go out with you. You have nothing to lose and much to gain. Tell her how you feel and say you are being true and sincere. Good luck! and hey tell me if it works out!

Advice on making friends鈥?

Since moving to the city, my childhood friends and I have become distant. I would like to make new friends in the area, but I guess I just assume once someone finds out how few friends I have at the moment they will want nothing to do with me. Also, it seems like people my age (in college) only want friends who already have lots of friends, so as to improve their own social status. I am not unattractive, I have good taste, I am kind and outgoing, but I have extreme difficulties just approaching a stranger and starting a conversation. Working alone hasn鈥檛 exactly helped either. I found a few girls my age on myspace that had similar interests as me and who live near by. Of the ones who agreed to add me as their friend, there has been no communication since they鈥檝e been added to my friend list. How do I start a friendship with these people, who as of now are complete strangers? Is there a way to get the conversation flowing? Any other advice on how to meet new people? I would love to take acting or dance classes, but do not have extra money for it right now.



Advice on making friends鈥?

I have had the same problem. I moved out of my home state three and a half years ago and have only made a few friends here...they aren't even really good Friends, just the kid who only want things from me or ones that only talk to me at school. I just started college this past Jan. 2007. I have a few people I talk to at school but we don't talk outside of that. I am just not the type of person who can walk up to someone I don't know and start talking to them. Even if we do talk I am not going to sound like a loser and ask them to please be my fiend. I too have resorted to Myspace to find other people my age to be friends with that live in my area. I did meet one girl who is a fair-weather friend, but nobody else. So I don't really know what to say. You said you are outgoing so maybe you should get into some type of club at school or go to the local bar and hang out. Sorry I can't be of more help.



Advice on making friends鈥?

Wait for an opportunity, once you get on a subject that you and someone else likes you two will go on and on.... Also, throw some compliments around, be like "hey cute shoes" and ask where they got them and stuff. People love talking about themselves, if they seem friendly ask them what interests them. And stop with the myspace try to be friends with people you will actually see every day. Good luck, girl. Confidence!



Advice on making friends鈥?

i hate to hear of someone new looking for friends, i have always taken notice of them and start a friendship cuz i'd hate to feel like that.....if i were u, i'd go to a church, a local library, just start talkin about anything that is interesting, like some girls do about clothes, hairstyles, salons... and if they are a really nice person then sure they'd like u, u sound really sweet......go to local parks and maybe if u like to take hikes, sure there's gotta be some there who would love to meet someone like u, also, the movies is good too, good luck!!!!!!!



Advice on making friends鈥?

Dude (I mean: dudette!), I have the same problem. I can go to school with someone for 2 or three years, and they are in my class for all of them, and they come up to me one day and start talking, I feel like a total stranger.I don't know how to respond to their statements, and I can't keep the conversation going. If you have any tips for me--PLEASE tell me.



Advice on making friends鈥?

Bummer, perhaps you should ask the people what you did to make them ignore you and tell them that you really wan't to have a very long lasting friendship. But if you don't want to be with them anymore then like you said meet new people. How? Well, when a new girl moves into the city and is new to your country, then show her around and tell/show her your favorite places to be when your alone. But, if your new to the nieghborhood then thats a different story. When you want to get use to being around there and wanna learn about the niehborhood, then ask someone whos already familiar with the nieghborhood and tell them thank you and ask them if they would go hang somewhere.



Advice on making friends鈥?

This makes me feel very sad. I presume you live alone in a city you don't really know and attend college? The best way is to get involved with groups at your college, ie. get on committees, etc. What about people who are in your classes? Find someone who has similar interest, etc, to you, and ask them to things with you. Be confident. When you get to know people through there, you can say casually "hey, let's grab a coffee, a movie..." etc. I know you don't have much money, but something like a drama class, a dance class, an art class or any sort of class would be a very good idea - after a few weeks of getting to know people, you can ask them out for a coffee at your place, and later dinner, etc. Join in with as many things as you can and the friends will come, it takes time, but hang in there! Good luck to you.

 
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