Why do i feel guilty about this??

Ive been in an on and off RL for almost 2 years. It's been crazy and i dont even know if it's been real if that makes sense. It's been long distance, he's in italy, i even visited him. It's just been so sporadic and off and on, yet he doenst seem to think it's been off and on, he says he has loved me all along. BS! He had a myspace, set to single, lots of girls on it. He has a best female friend from home who would always leave messages like, i love you, miss you, where are you. He said nothing was going on between them at all, who knows...long story short, i dont think he loves me, i have given so much, spent about 2k to go see him. He always seems to have an excuse not to talk to me. On weekends we barely speak. Hes in the military, but he's not in iraq, he spends weekends drinking. his female friend called me names on myspace (psycho, b*tch, stalker)...and he STILL talks to her even tho he says he loves me. I want to end this, but i feel guilty. WHY??!

Why do i feel guilty about this??

Dump this scum bag and find someone on the same continent. If you keep messin with him you are setting yourself up to get burned. Follow your gut instinct about this guy and stop torturing yourself!!

Why do i feel guilty about this??

you don't need to feel guilty about this he has been USING you just for a good time LEAVE him and don't look back

Why do i feel guilty about this??

You shouldnt feel guilty at all there is something def fishy here...first off if if really loves you he wouldnt allow anybody to disrespect you like that. and it sounds to me like he breaks it off when there is someone else so its not like he is cheating on you and that to him makes it okay..why even put up with his crap when you really love someone you dont keep breaking up and going back out you stay even when the times are tough and there will always be tough things in relationships you need to dump him and move on find someone who will treat you right

Why do i feel guilty about this??

Girl let he b@stard go. He is obviously playing with your emotions. my question is why in the he!! would you feel guilty? The b@stard dosen't even defend your honor, and he obviously has a thing for lying. You can do better trust me.

Why do i feel guilty about this??

Because you feel like you are wrong. He is making you feel guilty because he says he loves you, but his actions say something different. He is probably telling that girl that you are stalking him so he can keep her hanging on. You care about him and you don't want to do anything to hurt him.

Why do i feel guilty about this??

This is total nonsense.You know that this guy is going with other women . The reason why his girl friends call you names is because he is telling them that you are stalking him. Don't let him make a fool out of you .End it NOW.

Why do i feel guilty about this??

You shouldn't feel guilty at all. It's a good thing that you learned this early on and didn't continue to spend money and waste time on this man.

Your best bet is to learn from this mistake and move on without looking back! You DESERVE better than this man!!

Why do i feel guilty about this??

Maybe the reason you feel so guilty is because you feel so stupid for putting yourself through all this. He sounds very much like a gigolo to me, so the best thing you could do is forget about him and get on with your own life, without him.