How do i win my girlfriend back?

my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 years!!! for the last year i was away for a job in another country. When i came back, i found that she has changed. She liked to hang out more with her friends rather alone with me which we used to do before. She have this web page ie; myspace and facebook which she has been messaging people with the nick name that she used to only call me. She doent share her web page anymore like she used to do. I dont know either she is keeping a secret about something or hiding something. This girl is the love of my life and since i came back for about 1 week i have been doing the things she waan do just to keep her happy. I see my future in her but she is not being transparent with me just dont help me at all. I am always paranoid and sometimes ask her questions that tick her off. HOw should i deal with this??

How do i win my girlfriend back?

As hard as it sounds, you've been away for a year, and you're a stranger to her. I think you've also changed, but can't see it. She does. Give her time to open up, and don't ask prying questions. Act like it's the beginning again. Ask questions about her, her likes and dislikes, because she needs to be found again.

How do i win my girlfriend back?

talk to her about your concerns

How do i win my girlfriend back?

tell her how you feel, i know you think that she will freak out but if you feel that much about hr then you should, but dont forget to metion that u love her

How do i win my girlfriend back?

She;s just adjusting to you being back. I saw this all of the time with my military-wife friends. She found things to keep her busy while you were gone.

She'll come back around!

How do i win my girlfriend back?

in my opinion, she is cheating, i think you should be honest and confront her, even if she gets mad, just straight up tell her that the relationship isn't going to survive with all that doubt, and that if she feels that, its time to move on then you let her, but tell her to be honest with you! good luck :)

How do i win my girlfriend back?

if she doesnt tell you how she feels, it means that she doesnt feel you anymore, and is afraid to tell you, because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. ask her if she is happy with you and for her to be honest. be like if ur not happy with me, then i could be on my way. but it sounds to me like she has another bf or is real close to somebody. and u werent around, so you vant expect her to be the same. you wasnt there, so she had her friends to chill with. im sorry about your problem. but 4 yrs is a long time. yall should be able to work things out.