He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! >:(?

Okay does this make sense at all?(It SHOULDN'T) The last guy that I dated, started snubbing me and dating other people behind my back. I wasn't slow to catch on, I simply didn't care to deal with the situation at the time b/c I was mad-busy with work. When I tried to later dump him, he would avoid my calls, leaving me w/ dumping him on Myspace...I think he well deserved it, after playing me like a fool. Plus, he'd let girls comment "I love you!" on his site(girls he was f-ing), which shows that he didn't care if I found it...so why should I care about him not liking the Myspace thing?

So now his older brother(who I've known a long time) is mad at me. He wouldn't let me even explain, he just blocked me off completely. Also threatened to report me to the cops if I talked to him again, then 10mins later threatened me. Now my ex's brother is telling his guy friends to avoid me. All these people are avoiding my calls and rejecting my Myspace comments. I didn't do anything wrong! %26gt;:(

He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! %26gt;:(?

don't let it bother you. happens all the time. you don't need those type of people in your life.

He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! %26gt;:(?

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be IT.

The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.

I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

You are NOT as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium.

Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't, maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! %26gt;:(?

no myspace-breakin up isn't cool... u should have done it in person... or wrote him a letter....the point is that everyone don't kno what happened in the dark so u still have to handle urs like nothing did to cover u.... yea but what u could do is change ur myspace heading or whatever to he cheated on me...and next time don't ever get too busy to handle urs...if u don't who will???? But yea i'm not mad at ya though u did what u had to do just not the best way but ya did......

He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! %26gt;:(?

"it's hard, but you know it's worth the fight,

"cuz you know you've got the truth on your side.

"when the accusations fly, hold tight.

"and don't be afraid of what they'll say.

"who cares what cowards think anyway?

"they will understand one day.

"Oneday."

it will sort itself out in time, everything always does. put something on your myspace page about how no one cares enough to listen to you. all these 'friends' of yours will soon learn a valuable lesson about the number of sides to a story.

He cheats on me...yet I'M the one who everybody hates now! %26gt;:(?

sweetheart..your coming on here acting like you are an angel...you dont get snubbed for no reason at all...

...i can understand that your feelings may be hurt..but with friends like those who needs enemies..focus on work..make a good living and let a real man (who doesnt need to validate his manhood buy f*king every women he meets) find you...be good to yourself...forget that group of people..who needs them??