ok. so me and my boyfriend, we're 14. its 4 months til summer. we lasted 9 months. he just broke up with me, really suddenly. he said he doesnt want to be so tied down right now. he said he wants to live a little in the last marking period. he kissed me and told me he loved me and held my hand and hugged me, AFTER we broke up. i cried. he promised me that we'd get back together in the summer, that this is only temporary. he said he'd never tell another girl "i love you," and no one would ever have what we have. he said im amazing and perfect, and theres no reason not to go out with me. he said we'll still be friends and talk, but he wont talk much. there are 2 things i dont get.
1; theres this girl that always flirts. and they day after he ended it, he started pic-commenting her myspace pics calling her beautiful, and he always insulted her when we dated.
2; if summer rolls around and he's dating someone else... how can i be sure he'll take me back?
i love him... and im confused.
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
Here is the sad truth. He is wanting to play the field. There are no guarantees about this summer. If he does come back to you this summer, because whoever "she" is won't be around, what do you think will happen when "she" comes back? He'll be dumping you again. I think the wisest thing you can do is to make a new rule for yourself: Every guy you date gets to date you, till they break up with you. Once they break up with you, they must realize you will never take them back. Make that rule, inform the boys of this rule and stick to it. I can promise you will be much happier than these girls who have guys who continually break up with them. They'll keep breaking up with you and coming back and breaking up and coming back unless you lay down the law.
This guy has no respect for you. Find someone else and be too busy for him this summer.
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
I think you're asking for trouble with this best friend thing. She's talking to him, talking to you...sounds like a manipulation trick. Just move forward and have someone else by summer. Don't be there for him. Report It
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
you have a right to be confused...
you should be pissed as hell at him....HE'S A PLAYER
so, you're willing to go out with him in the summer? he's a total jackass player...he's just saying he'll go back out with you....
notice how he's flirting with other girls? notice how he's saying what you want to hear, not what he feels?
you need to let him go quick, fast, and in a hurry....
he's waisting your time
plus...he's only 14 and isn't even close to maturity...
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
how about just doing your homework and forgetting about boys for a couple of years.
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
No, it won't happen.
At 14, emotions are in flux and he may decide that he never really was in love
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
Dont go back out with him, hes dumb for dumping you and saying all that BS! That was very immature of him! Date a new guy, youll probably get over him by the summer anyways!
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
That's low and dirty he's using you like a book. He just thinks he can pick you up whenever he feels like it. Just tell him now or never.
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
love can be confusing sum times a guy needs to realize want they really want so to see that they would put you on hold thinking that you would wait forever until they could make up their mind all you have to do is be hard on him the next time he passes around
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
Baby Girl you are so confused !! Take a deep breath and relax. This guy is playing you !! He just wants to go sow his wild oats. Realize this if he loved you why are you breaking up? Move on who would want that loser back anyways? Don't take it personal ---This is a guy thing to see if he can keep you as his play pretty on a shelf until he wants to play with you again !! I know you love him and it will be hard but trust me there are alot of girls who have been through this too. You seem like an intelligent girl so pick yourself up brush yourself off and move on !! Good Luck
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
He's a jerk hun no offence. I don't think he's gonna get back with you but he has you just where he wants you so if this new girl dumps him you'll be there for him as a back up. If I were you I would get over him and show him you don't need him even though you may secretly need him.
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
he definitely loves you and wants you, but he's trying to explore other girls. he's testing the waters and looking around. don't hold yourself back. look at other guys while you can--you may find one that's better and will treat you like a queen! Meanwhile, if he loves you, he'll come around by summer break. Confront him about it and then if he gets sketchy, leave him alone to figure it out. You need a man that will take you and the relationship seriously enough not to lie o you or play you. Good luck!
Boyfriend; breakup; said we'll be back together in summer.?
There are no guarantees in life.
From what you've wrote here, I think he might have been trying to be nice to you when he broke-up with you, but it was a breakup.
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