He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

my fiance stopped cheating on me a month ago, he had been seeing this girl on the side for about 2 months, he told me he broke things off with her, but at Christmas time she wanted to give him his gift she had bought before they split up, so i oked that visit, but it has continued every since. They text non stop, the few i've seen were innocent, but still ive been wondering, if they are just friends now. She comes to our home when im not there ( never when I am there) He left a message on her myspace telling her he loved her, and that love wins in the end, but he said it was because she had, had a bad day and that he can tell his friends he loves them, if he wants. I know when she comes over, I know he talks to her, he isn't hiding seeing her, but still i feel there is more here. He says my "crazy" Jelouse behavior is driving him crazy, that I make his life miserable because I cant take them being friends, that , that is all they are now, and to get over it before i lose him.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

he is playing you and greatly disrespecting you. if they aren't still sleeping together, they are at least continuing their emotional affair which is just as bad if not worse. all of his emotional energy should be focused on your relationship, not her. and why aren't you making him work to earn your love and trust???? dump this dog immediately.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Hunny, if he cant stop seeing her then i really dont think you should be with him. he obviously still cares for her and wants to be around her. You need to ask him to stop and if he doesnt that he really doesnt love you.. and would you really want to marry a man that has cheated on you?? Us girls deserve better then that.. come on now

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Hello!! He cheated on you and he wants to be friends with her!! Is that even legal?? LOL!! Say NO!

This is the first time i am telling this to anyone - dump him!

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Lose him you lost him a long time ago?Have some pride in yourself and dump the dumb%26gt;Before he gives you some STDS or aids%26gt;

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

He has not stopped cheating on you. He may not be sleeping with her (but probably is), but he is most definitely having at least an emotional affair.

His behavior is completely unacceptable. You are not the one acting 'crazy'. Its crazy that he thinks you should accept that his mistress is a part of his life. And frankly, you are right to be concerned. I HIGHLY doubt that the relationship is innocent.

Get out now. Don't bother trying to make your case. He's not going to stop seeing her, if you push it he'll take it back into secrecy. Whatever you do DO NOT marry this man.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Hellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll no!

They should not be friends. Is she that important?

If he can't let her go, then you need to let him go, he needs to consider your feelings.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Once a cheater, always a cheater

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

I went through this many years ago. Your guy does not love you nor does he want to marry you. When you truly love and cherish a person, you don't want another woman/man. You don't want that person to have pain.

He is cheating on you right now. This tells me that there is nothing serious towards you on his part. You are making his life miserable because, deep down, even if he is a scum, he knows that what he is doing is wrong. But he is a player and isn't ready to commit. He will continue to push you until you leave.

Don't invest any more time or pain on this loser! Give the ring back and show him the door. Be strong. You will find a great guy who loves you, doesn't want to be with anyone else and wants you to be happy.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Then lose him. If he had any respect for you or your relationship he would have lost her a long time ago.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

he's still cheating on you or he still has the desire to be with her... too bad your never there when there together then you could read there body language... still if he loved you and was comitted to you he would let her go...

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Miss, there is only one way to say this and that is to be BLUNT................................ Stop being a DAMN FOOL. This man has fuc^ked around on you, is Still ******** around on you, and if you are dumb enough to marry him, will continue to F%26amp;ck around on you. Question: If this relationship with this girl is as platonic as he claims it is, then why does she come to your house ( where you both live) when you are not home AFTER you have told him that you are not comfortable with this ? He is talking about marrying YOU, but he does not have ANY FU*K$NG respect for your feelings. He needs to discontinue his relationship/ friendship/ coochie companionship or whatever he wants to call it with this woman. Friends my *** ! Yeah, they are friends all right. Every time you are kissing that two timing son of a backstabbing bi%ch, you are tasting her. They text non stop, he leave messages on her myspace page and you are wondering if there is something more going on. Sweetheart, Stevie Wonder can see that there is a lot more going on here. And to top it off, he has the nerve to try and flip this s#it around ( by making you seem like you are blowing it out of proportion) by teling you to " get over it before you lose him". Miss, You lost him long time ago ! He porbably was never yours to begin with.First of all, you need to stop sleep with him! Second of all, get a coochie check real quick. Hopefully he hasn't given you anything. BUT there is a silver cloud here. At least you see this lying *** mutherf%cker for what he is BEFORE you marry him. Now, if you decide to marry him after this, you will be boo-boo the fool if you catch him cheating and he breaks your heart. Truly you can find another man somewhere in this world that will show you that he can love and respect you. ANY man that brings a woman to a house that is occupied by him and his wife/ fiance and sleeps with her there is a " Lying No Good Bi%ch". ANY woman that comes to another woman's house where she knows that the man and his wife/fiance lives at and sleeps with him there is a " STANK *** DISRESPECTFUL, B*TCH " ( who deserves to get her *** whupped if you catch her), Sorry about my tirade, but you need to move the hell on. Believe me he still involved with her. I haven't even looked at other peoples responses yet, but I bet that everyone else tells you the same thing. Good LUCk.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Him not hiding her visits doesn't mean anything. Fortunately for him he doesn't have to hide it because he knows he has a woman that he can do these things to. He is leading you along and I think you know it. Why would he leave her alone when he doesn't have to. Though 95% of your answers may confirm exactly what I'm saying, you look for the one answer that helps you to feel better about sticking with him. If you like these games there is nothing wrong with staying, some people enjoy this sort of thing but if you are looking for a serious relationship your barking up the wrong tree.You don't have to worry about losing him because you dont have him he's got you. Take it to God.

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

first of all...if they signs are there what more do you want to leave his ***? i would not ok my cheating fiance being friends what the hoeskie he cheated on me with!!! im sorry but that is a no no!! big time!!! how would he like it if you did that to him? is this going to continue? i dont know...if she was his friend from the go then ok..but this was some girl he cheated on you with..i wouldnt have let her give him the gift. she disrespected you. you are engaged to be married. not just bf and gf!! dont let him walk all over you. there is no need for that..hes just trying to cover up something!!! sorry but dump him!! best of luck!!!

He recently stoped cheating, but wants to stay close friends with the girl?

Your question is obvious. Don't stay in the relationship or stay in it without him being friends with HER. Do you really have to ask!