My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

We have had a unhealthy relationship since almost the beginning. He lied to me alot and I didnt trust him. I had a jealousy problem (trust). And in November I lost a baby due to a tubal pregnancy. He is very sweet but at the same time very selfish. I have 3 children and he just didnt interact with them like I think he should of for him to one day become a step father. I love him so much..... Its just any time we get into an argument he says horrible things to me and I told him how it made me feel , but it never stopped. He still does it. Well, yesterday I called him to see what he was doing and he was writing to some girl on myspace. I got upset because I asked him what they were talking about and he told me that it was private and none of my bussiness. So, I broke it off. Now he is putting the blame for the break up on me saying I should respect his privacy even though he doesnt mine. Why am I hurting so badly.... and why do I feel like I did something wrong? Did I?

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

You can love someone and still break off an unhealthy relationship. Things weren't working out, so you felt it was in your best interest to end the relationship. The remourse comes in when you start to miss the other person, and start feeling "lonely". That'll pass .. quickly, when you've had time to think about things, and realize you made the right decision.

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

it always hurts when you loose someone, but if it's that bad then you did the right thing

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

keep him with you

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

you shouldnt feel bad, from what you're saying he's not a good guy. try to meet new people to get your mind off it, you're better off without him. it sounds like he could become abusive.

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

Sounds like scum to me......If he treats your kids bad then that is the first sign that you should kick him to the curb.....The fact that he always has to know what your e-mails say and he won't tell you what his say.....Red Flags are going off everywhere on that one honey. Stop hurting yourself and stop contacting him....I mean you said it yourself that the relationship started off bad so don't put yourself through that.

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

You are hurting because you are a kind and loving person who cares about someone who unfortunately does not care about you. He is emotionally abusing you and you did the right thing by ending the relationship. You are obviously very intelligent because you realized he wasn't treating you or your children the way you should be treated. The pain will stop eventually and you will move on and find a man who treats you and your kids like gold. You did nothing wrong so don't feel guilty. Your children are depending on you to find someone who treats you and them wonderful and trust me... he's out there. Good for you!!!

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

You tell the world this big story--high drama--he's a bad choice--no respect for you, not nice to the kids, a liar, cannot communicate, he's a bully, and he is a manipulator--then you say you love him---LOVE WHAT? are you that needy to have feelings for this guy--make a choice sweety--you feel like you are the sad one here--he's the sad case that started all this---can't you do any better--or do you think all men are like this???And how could you ever subject your kids to this guy--want them to grow up thinking that all men must be like him?? get a grip and move on--stop the pathetic pity routine.

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

u r in an abusive relationship. congratulations for ending it. u have just made the best decision of your life and for your children. u deserve better some one u trust and some one who trust u. He will blame u for it but that is him trying to gain control again don't let him. You didn't do anything wrong if hes talking to other people u have a right to no about wut even if it isn't full detail. but again congratulations.

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday and it was me that made the desision to break it off.?

you did the right thing.