ok so... it was a while ago like a month i think. and there was a misunderstanding and i thought that my girlfriend broke up with me. but she didnt. stupidly i posted a blog on myspace about how girls leave you and friends never do. it was kinda like the bros before hoes thing but i didnt actually put that nor did i totally say girls suck. i was pissed off and i do stupid stuff when im pissed. but i found out that she didnt break up with me and everything went normal. for a while. untill she found the blog becuase i didnt delete it. i hella forgot!! now shes super pissed at me and telling me to go to my friends and she keeps hanging with other guys. i dont want to dump her because i love her very much and i cant live with out her and i just want to know how i can put this all behind us and go back to normal.
How can i move past it? how can i make her forgive me and go back to normal?
ok well things are basically messed up now. so all u have 2 do it explain the situation 2 her and why u wrote that..make her understand how u really care; show her that u do really love her..
Good Luck
How can i move past it? how can i make her forgive me and go back to normal?
post a blog retracting the previous one, be particular and make sure you address each of you statements. Add that you were being a dumb **** and apologise. make sure she sees it. if this doesn't work i don't know what will ?
How can i move past it? how can i make her forgive me and go back to normal?
You can't. You dont want to hear it but there is nothing you can do, and the harder you try the further from your goal your going to get.
You said what you said. What ever. It sounds like you two are at a point where you may be drifting apart. Your communication is so bad you dont even know if you are together? The way i see it, you have two choices
1)If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it was truely yours. This is the more "romantic" way to look at this. You leave her alone, she leaves you alone and over time she forgets why she was so mad and beings to recall all the fun your two had and starts to warm up to you again.
2) F that B! She wants to be mad at you over nothing? Let her! Let her know that her being upset is irrating to you and your not going to talk to her if she is going to act so juvenial. You have a right to say whatever you want. You have a right to be upset.
She is thinking she is going to "get back at you" by ignoring you and paying attention to other guys. But in reality she needs you WAY more than you need her.
Women dont want a weak guy. And when you say "baby im sorry" and ""i cant live without her" your being weak. First off trust me, you can live better with out her. You know what better than your girlfriend? Two girls! Go get your self some. Then when she hears that not only are you completly over her but you are dating TWO women she will FLIP! She will be begging you to take her back. Then you can decide if she was worth your time. ANYTHING, is better than being weak.
You can say anything you want in your blog. You have a right to deal with your emotions however you want. If she is going to act like a child and try to tell you what you can and cant do give her the walking papers and find a better girl.
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