What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

ok well probally everyone has heard the storys of thhe cheating wife while the man is deployed i am currently deployed to iraq and im always on a misson out here being 82nd so i get very litte time to call my future wife so i wright a lot online to her well recenty i was looking at her myspace and she took mine and her picture off and put 2 other pictures one with just some guy sitting in his room which the way it looked that she was taking the picture from his bed and the other she was cheek to cheeck with this guy i confronted her and asked her what this was al about and she said that he is just a freiend that got back from iraq well i know what most guys want when we get back from this pllace and im assuming that they were alone i love this girl and trust her in some way but i have my doubts she was cheeck to cheeck with some other guy that felt like a knife throw the heart what should i do i will see her in oct for 18 then its back to iraq so can anyone give me some words of advice

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

Look here soldier, if you know your chute is gonna open when you pull the chord do u test it seconds before you jump?

When I was overseas I got the "just a friend of my cousin" speech. When I came home on leave she was recovering with a new baby.

Now you might have a good lady, but do your recon and make sure you have good intel. HOAH

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

doubt and lack of trust is hard to get rid of. i suggest that you sit down with her, and ask her what is going on. i don't think you should marry her if there is doubt that she's been faithful. honesty is the only way that a marriage is going to last.

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

Oh man - that's dirty. You need to tell her what that makes you think. There is no excuse for her being cheek to cheek with another guy while you're away. Who cares if he just got back from Iraq, you're her fiance she should be keeping pictures of you two up and there's no reason for her to be in some guy's bedroom other than sex.

Confront her again.

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

I think you already know the answere to your question.

She has shown no loyalty to you by her actions %26amp; I would be quickly giving her the flick.

She'd probably be up to the same behaviour if ever you went away again.

To allow herself to be photographed in such a situation shows how serious %26amp; loyal she is....NOT!

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

i am sorry to hear your story but the truth is that the signs are not good. first why did she remove your picture? if you are going to get married then your picture should be there to let everyone know who you are . second the fact that she replaced it with some other guys picture means that he means a lot more to her than you, there is no quota of pics that you can put on myspace so both pictures could have been there. the sad part is that i wouldnt blame her for not being able to wait for you, she was lonely, therefore vulnerable and fell for someone "on the rebound".

talk to her and hopefully you can save something out of all this.

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

Sorry, but you already know what is going on. She knew you'd see the pics, so her posting them IS today's equivalent of a "Dear John" letter. Sad, but that IS almost certainly true. I wish I had a better answer, but you don't need lies.

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

I would have 2nd thoughts about her as being marriage material.

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

make you future

you ex

you know how many women go sideways on their guys who are deployed in IRAQ?

far too many

do not think just because you are doing your service to your country, patriotic that it is ( and I for one thank you ) think she will respect that.. well your wrong

at your age ( I'll assume you are young ) you shouldn't even be engaged much less in any sort of commitment

do your tour

get out alive

get a career going

and when you are 30 or so

and you even want to contemplate marriage ( and i would still ill advise that )

then go ahead

but be fore warned

the enemy is not necessarily in IRAQ with a buried roadside IWD, she is alive an well here in USA ready to take advantage of good men like you and if not prepare you will never see it coming

What to do when you see your future wife when she is cheeck to heeck with another guy?

When you get back you need to be honest and tell her how this made you feel. That really was not a good thing to do on her part because you don't need the added stress being where you are. She could have known better and so could of the guy if he knew she sent them? He should know what this would be like for you at this time and talked her out of it! If she is your future wife you need to let her know what is acceptable and not acceptable in this relationship. I don't know what she could have been thinking when she put these pictures on myspace knowing that you would see them? That sincerely was not a mature and proper thing to do for your mental stability right now and I would let her know that in a good way. As soon as possible ask her to clear this up so that you know where this is coming from. Communication is always best and it may have not meant anything. It's just possible that he is connected to one of her friends and thats all? You take care of yourself and with all my respect thank you for defending our country I am proud of you.