Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

he left like a week ago and i got a message on myspace from a girl saying that they had been together for a month now i dont know what to believe and i dont know what to do cause i love him so much

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

To Kathlean K

Let him go his own way, He can not betrusted ever again and he will play up with other woman, again and again.

I Know I have a brother who does it all the time, more full his girl friend is as she is nieave to the fact. What gos around comes aroundand he will fall flat on his face.

Taking him back is all so dangeruse for you as you dont Know if he has contracted any STD'S or the worst Aids. He has done it once he will do it again.

Get on with your life look after the Baby and your self, Number One priorerty, see Center link or your loyers about family payments and getting your boy frieand to pay child support. There are lots of Single guys out there who are willing to take on a relationship with a single mum and you will find Mr wright.

I Know this to As I have just gotten Married to a single Mother with a handy caped Son and we could not be any happier. Your life and the babys life are more important then your boy frieand who does not care. You should be due soon hope everthing go,s well for you.

From James.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

try to take care of yourself and try not to follow your heart do what you think is best for you and your baby

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Im telling you, you don't deserve him. Move on. Love, and life can be terrible, but you have to get through it. Make sure you're maybe has a happy home. As long as that baby has you, and you have her, its going to be alright. As soon as you have that baby, you will relise, nothing else matters, besides you're daughters life, and you'res. If you feel you need help, hire a nanny. Move on. After a long time of getting over it, perhaps you're ready to date again.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

You may feel like you love him so much right now, but he is not someone you can depend on and he is cheating on you! Talk to a lawyer right away because you will need him to start child support payments as soon as possible after the baby is born. If you won't be working right away after the birth and need money, check with social services to see how they can help out until you get back on your feet.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Start by filing a Petition for Determination of Paternity at the "self-help" area of your local court house. (you may also hire an attorney to do this). It is a pretty straight forward process. The court determines he is the father. Then the court determines how much he has to pay in child support. Your about to have a baby. You don't need his B/S and you need to start making the right decisions for your baby not just you. Good luck. Life is going to be awesome!

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

I bet you were never married.? This is what you get if

you didn't have him make a committment before and soon

after you became pregnant. So, I'd put baby up for adoption

where some nice couple can care for and love this new

life. Then, don't ever do this again. Apparently, the "love"

you speak of is all one-sided. Get over him.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

I'm sorry for what has happened. The best advice i can give you is to use your own feelings in this situation. Your heart won't steer you wrong. I would not get too upset you have a baby very clothes to being born. I would get in contact with friends and family so you are not left alone for the time being. I hope everything works out. If you ever need someone to talk to email me at koala0021@yahoo, Good Luck!

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

I feel for you I went through something similar.

Focus your attention on you and baby right now you need your energy and worry is not good for either of you. Things will fall into place.

Use the support network you have friends family county whatever don't be afraid to ask for help

Good luck I hope you and the baby are healthy

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Getting rid of the "i love him so much" junk is excellent advice for all girls mixed up with sad little boys.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Sue him for child support!

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

If he has the balls to cheat on you while you are pregnant he is not worth keeping. Let him go and when your baby is born make sure he pays child support. If I were you I would just concentrate on myself and the baby right now. Once the baby is born you will be busy and not have much time to think about him.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

You and your baby are better off without that jerk.

I hope you have family and friends, who will stand by you.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

You should laugh at the other girl because she gets your terrible ex. Move on.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

take care of yourself and pray for your baby's daddy. whatever you do, don't let the other female get to you right now because you're the most vulnerable now that you can't do too much with the baby inside so go ahead and have the baby, when the baby comes, take care of it and later put the baby in the care of one of your relatives or close friends and begin trying to reach the baby's daddy and pray that God's will in that relationship will be done.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Just move on take care of yourself. I have two wonderful boys and I take care of them myself. Their fathers are not here and I been taking care of them myself since the they were born. Give all your love to the baby. Don't think of him. He the one going to miss out on alot of things in that baby life.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

I had the same thing happen to me. Put you and that baby first. Take him to court for child support, because you are going to need it. Be sure to get some child custody too. I can tell you that girl sending you that messages is trying to get you upset. So go on with your life. You and that baby are all you should be worried about right. I will be around if you need anything........

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

u shouldn't love someone who acts like a child. leaving u when about to give birth.what kind of sh*t is that.tell him to go to hell n die!!!don't even add his name on the birth certificate, be strong for ur new bundle of joy.

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

The first thing you need to be thinking about is your baby. Your child deserves a mother and a father that loves them. It sounds like your boyfriend isn't ready to be a father. If you haven't already, please consider adoption. There are many, many couples out there that can't have children that would give your baby as much love as you could. It's easy to be selfish when you're considering adoption because you make your decision based on your feelings. Give your unborn baby the opportunity to have a mother and a father. Please don't misunderstand me - I'm not saying that single parents can't give just as much or more love and care to a child than a couple can. It just sounds like you are very young - give your baby the chance to have things in life that you won't be able to give him (or her).

As far as your boyfriend goes, he sounds like a real jerk - your lucky that he left. Move on with your life and don't look back!

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

consider adopation for the baby, the guy been 2 timing you , so he doen't love you , move on

Im 9 months pragnant and my baby's daddy left me what do i do?

Be strong for your child honey! He/she [the baby] doesnt need stress and drama in its life, honey we can do this! Single motherhood aint the worst thing in the world. He is probably frightened at the thought of being a father. Be strong girl and follow your heart, do what is best for you and your child. Peace be with you, stef.