MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

ok, your boyfriend texts two particular girls on his cell phone, but he insists he isnt%26gt; or wouldnt cheat.

im a jelous person... but the thing is i cheated on him a month

ago, i told him... im never going to cheat again!! but he wont beleive me!! im so in love with him i dont want him to do the same to me.. :(

but yet, he talks to these two girls that are his "friends" on myspace and he TEXTS them occasionally... what the heck?!?! would he cheat? why would he need to talk to them, he has me for a reason right? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? honestly... am i trippen? lol i just dont want to become to jelouse and accuse him and push him to cheat on me because i assume too much

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

As a general theory because you have cheated you will always feel like he may cheat on you. its called projection I beleive. This is a scary situation because, in his mind, he has a free pass to cheat because you did it to him. You cant tell him not to text those girls, because he's just gonna say "what, because you cheated you think im like that". Deal with your jealousy, try your best to keep it to yourself. What you should do is find out as much as you can about these girls, to the point where you can talk to them on your own. Ever heard of keep your enemies closer. Will this is the time you should. The best way to avoid being cheated on is repent for your mistake everyday, and Karma may forgive you

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You cheated on HIM and you're worried about a couple female friends of his? Wow. You're a real piece of work.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You are the offender, but yet, you accuse him.

Check yourself lady, you are the problem.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

a) he is allowed to have friends that are girls

b) you cheated on him, paybacks a b****

c) Why don't you meet these girls and find out whats going on

d) Take his phone and read the text messages hes sending

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You guys are cheating on each other.

Now, I think that you should break up with him and forget him. You should think about things over while you're single. At least 3 months without a boyfriend. Think about what's right and wrong. Like the mistakes you did.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

I dont really know your situation but maybe a few things..

1. you are overacting

2. you'r boyfriend is a jerk and is cheating on you

3. He is getting back at you

4. the girls that he texts do not like you so they are planning to get him from you...

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

texting someone is not cheating! why isn't he allowed to have friends? my advice is calm down until you have REAL proof.. then you can freak out :)

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

my x bf was like that...most of my friends are guys so i talk to them nd hang out with them all the time, he got really really jel....he didnt cheat on me or nything but it pissed him off...specially cuz some of my guy friends are a lil touchy nd stuff....you should trust him, hes allowed to have best friends..that just so happen to b girls!

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

Without complete trust, there is no relationship. Wait until you both mature a bit.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

You need to relax. What your feeling is what a lot of people that cheat feel. Your scared that he is going to cheat on you because you did. That might be true, or it might not be. I have seen both scenerious take place.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

is this because you want to be the only one in this relationship that cheat or are you afraid that the girl he cheets with will make you look like the tramp you jsut told us about.

man girls are so wacked when it comes to them doing something but get pissed off if the guy even thinks about it.

get a grip

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

If you want his undivided attention (ugh) just

don't talk about who he texts and who he talks to.

Be cool when he's around so he doesn't know you are already bonkers over him. Good grief there are a million guys out there, why tie yourself down with one? There's plenty of time for that when you are tired of play and want to settle down. Of course I chose to be settled down here with my cat. It's so peaceful and I don't have to tell anyone where I'm going or when to expect me. When you have that attitude the boys will flock around you.

I have a real attitude. It seems to attract a lot of women and even girls who are with another guy.

Have fun.

MATURE ADVICE NEEDED please...lol?

so if he can't talk to other girls....you're obviously not talking to other guys right? i mean why would you need to when you've got him? doesn't work like that does it. grow up girlie...jealousy is not attractive and if you are so in love...why did you cheat in the first place?....work yourself out sweetie. you obviously have some commitment problems as well as low self esteem. talk to some one that can really help like a therapist hunny. hope this helps.

Help me out?

thxs ok theres this girl i think im in love with and about a mounth ado i asked her out and she said that she wasent ready to date again cuz she had just broken up with someone well i still love her and want to kno what to do cuz now she posted a bullitien on myspace that said she was single and hateing it help me out

Help me out?

Reply back. "Why do you hate it so much?" Or something along the lines of that.

Help me out?

talk to her ask her if she wants to hang out go to the movies

Help me out?

go for it!

tell her to give you a chance.

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o geez that sucks. just talk to her like normal like asking her out didnt happen. if things change... youl know... it happend to me

Help me out?

Be likee if your single..

i can help you out

than ask her outtt..

Help me out?

nahh kid, id say leave her alone, it sounds from her bulletin that she didnt want to hurt your feelings when she said she wasnt ready

but i might be wrong

Help me out?

that means should doesn't like you dude. Or you can buy an alien changeing robot and get her in tha adventure of a life time.

Help me out?

ask her again

Help me out?

It sounds like she spends some time on internet.

I would send her a friendly e-mail asking how she is holding up etc. She seems to be lonely so I think may be this is a good time for you to show her some caring.Start out slowly and really try to be her friend first.

Help me out?

Ok first of all you have to give her space. Then casually ask her if she would like to go out with you. You have nothing to lose and much to gain. Tell her how you feel and say you are being true and sincere. Good luck! and hey tell me if it works out!

Advice on making friends鈥?

Since moving to the city, my childhood friends and I have become distant. I would like to make new friends in the area, but I guess I just assume once someone finds out how few friends I have at the moment they will want nothing to do with me. Also, it seems like people my age (in college) only want friends who already have lots of friends, so as to improve their own social status. I am not unattractive, I have good taste, I am kind and outgoing, but I have extreme difficulties just approaching a stranger and starting a conversation. Working alone hasn鈥檛 exactly helped either. I found a few girls my age on myspace that had similar interests as me and who live near by. Of the ones who agreed to add me as their friend, there has been no communication since they鈥檝e been added to my friend list. How do I start a friendship with these people, who as of now are complete strangers? Is there a way to get the conversation flowing? Any other advice on how to meet new people? I would love to take acting or dance classes, but do not have extra money for it right now.

Advice on making friends鈥?

I have had the same problem. I moved out of my home state three and a half years ago and have only made a few friends here...they aren't even really good Friends, just the kid who only want things from me or ones that only talk to me at school. I just started college this past Jan. 2007. I have a few people I talk to at school but we don't talk outside of that. I am just not the type of person who can walk up to someone I don't know and start talking to them. Even if we do talk I am not going to sound like a loser and ask them to please be my fiend. I too have resorted to Myspace to find other people my age to be friends with that live in my area. I did meet one girl who is a fair-weather friend, but nobody else. So I don't really know what to say. You said you are outgoing so maybe you should get into some type of club at school or go to the local bar and hang out. Sorry I can't be of more help.

Advice on making friends鈥?

Wait for an opportunity, once you get on a subject that you and someone else likes you two will go on and on.... Also, throw some compliments around, be like "hey cute shoes" and ask where they got them and stuff. People love talking about themselves, if they seem friendly ask them what interests them. And stop with the myspace try to be friends with people you will actually see every day. Good luck, girl. Confidence!

Advice on making friends鈥?

i hate to hear of someone new looking for friends, i have always taken notice of them and start a friendship cuz i'd hate to feel like that.....if i were u, i'd go to a church, a local library, just start talkin about anything that is interesting, like some girls do about clothes, hairstyles, salons... and if they are a really nice person then sure they'd like u, u sound really sweet......go to local parks and maybe if u like to take hikes, sure there's gotta be some there who would love to meet someone like u, also, the movies is good too, good luck!!!!!!!

Advice on making friends鈥?

Dude (I mean: dudette!), I have the same problem. I can go to school with someone for 2 or three years, and they are in my class for all of them, and they come up to me one day and start talking, I feel like a total stranger.I don't know how to respond to their statements, and I can't keep the conversation going. If you have any tips for me--PLEASE tell me.

Advice on making friends鈥?

Bummer, perhaps you should ask the people what you did to make them ignore you and tell them that you really wan't to have a very long lasting friendship. But if you don't want to be with them anymore then like you said meet new people. How? Well, when a new girl moves into the city and is new to your country, then show her around and tell/show her your favorite places to be when your alone. But, if your new to the nieghborhood then thats a different story. When you want to get use to being around there and wanna learn about the niehborhood, then ask someone whos already familiar with the nieghborhood and tell them thank you and ask them if they would go hang somewhere.

Advice on making friends鈥?

This makes me feel very sad. I presume you live alone in a city you don't really know and attend college? The best way is to get involved with groups at your college, ie. get on committees, etc. What about people who are in your classes? Find someone who has similar interest, etc, to you, and ask them to things with you. Be confident. When you get to know people through there, you can say casually "hey, let's grab a coffee, a movie..." etc. I know you don't have much money, but something like a drama class, a dance class, an art class or any sort of class would be a very good idea - after a few weeks of getting to know people, you can ask them out for a coffee at your place, and later dinner, etc. Join in with as many things as you can and the friends will come, it takes time, but hang in there! Good luck to you.

Is their a standard for being hot?

Basically what im curious is does it matter whether an ugly girl calls you hot or a hot girl calls you hot or vice versa for the girls. I mean i feel that i get the your hot thing alot but im not always sure if its from someone i want to here it from or some one I would necessarily would say is hot. But IDK is it the same or do hot people have a higher standard of hot or is it all just universal. Im trying to break this down as good as i can so i get the answers i want and not a bunch of misguided rambles. Basically this is the best scenario if a hot person wrote down a list of people she thought was hot and a not so hot girl wrote down a list of people she thought was hot would they be similar or would the hot girls picks be held to higher standards. Thats good

http://www.myspace.com/joeblasutig

(feel free to say hey im kinda becoming the unofficial yahoo answers love doctor)

Joey

Is their a standard for being hot?

hot is how you see it. its random.

Is their a standard for being hot?

iduno but you're hot

Is their a standard for being hot?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

Love doctor, let's not get cocky!

Is their a standard for being hot?

They would be the same, ugly girls have eyes ya know. But I think the ugly girls would have more guys on the list because more guys are... "above" them and they consider more guys hott.

Is their a standard for being hot?

i say it persobell refrence....i dont think there is a general exceptance of hot.... i think if a girl think ur hot she is the one that thinks ur hot... i dont think she goes hmmm let me check my general refenerce of whats and what not.. to tell her what she thinks is hot.... and if u a love doc then might as well check out my question too then lol..

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

thnx

Is their a standard for being hot?

I think hott girls do have higher standards, and it takes alot for them to say someone is hott, but ugly girls might just say somebody is hott because they know that they are cuter than them. and yes you are hott, i clicked on your myspace linklol. so never doubt yourself. if you get called hott by anyone just take it as a compliment. =] %26lt;33

Is their a standard for being hot?

No, but there is for spelling. Learn how to use spell check because being perceived as brain dead is ugly.

Is their a standard for being hot?

you look like a dork!!

Is their a standard for being hot?

I'm not sure if a hot girl list and a not hot girl list would be the way to go. Because what's hot and what's not is according to individual taste. Like I think Johnny Depp is sexy as all hell, but some girls, hot or not, would disagree with me.

Paris Hilton to some guys is as hot as it gets, yet to some others she is a pig dog.

I don't think that there are varying levels of attractiveness based on what you look like yourself, because everyone thinks differently. And anyway who deems who is hot and who is not? Most of time it seems that majority rules. And some really unattractive people have impeccable taste in others.

It is proven however, that people date and marry people who are at their level of attractiveness. But then just because you marry at your own level, doesn't mean you don't dream about people out of your league.

Is their a standard for being hot?

OMG no lie you are soooo hot.

email me again.

i think ur super cute.

Is their a standard for being hot?

idk, my best friend adam likes a girl and i think shes butt ugly but he likes her. i think 'hot' is an opinion

Can anyone help me have a better understanding to this?

i told this guy that i like and i told him that i like him as a boyfriend than a friend. and he says that we haven't gone that far yet babe. does he mean we haven't gone far enough to be in a relationship or something else?

one thing confuses me is that he doesn't call his girl as a friend babe and say loving things like me. like on valentine's day he said, happy valentine day and i love you. which other girl says happy valentine's too, but he didn't say that to them. which was on myspace by the way. i'm lost of why he said that to me, but not them. and also, we make out too and i don't understand what he meant by we haven't gone that far. can you guys help me have a better understanding please?

Can anyone help me have a better understanding to this?

He probably does like u but he needs some time 2 b able 2 say that u guys r together. Like w/ my husband %26amp; I we dated 4 4 months got angaged 4 2 mnths %26amp; got married but it took me about 2 1/2 months 2 say that he was my bf.

I dont knw what to do can you help me?

my boyfriend usally isnt like this but. i told him not to talk to this one girl because she always says sexual things on his comments an she always writes him on myspace.. he knows i dont like her an i made him delete her an he said that was fine no problem. this was the only girl i had a problem wiith.. an hes never like this but i think hes talkin to her behind my back.i read this his comment about that girl i hate told his sister to tell him sorry i got off the computer it froze on me.. so he was either on myspace or aim talking to her.. i cant believ he did this.. i would never do that to him.. what should i say or do? help please.

i cant stop stressing about this. it worries me should i be? please serious answers

also this girl i hate is his sisters good friend.. i love him an this hurts i asked him once but he keeps doing it..

i dont keep him from talking to all girls just her. an hes still talking to her. he asked me to stop talkin to a guy an i did

tHANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVI

I dont knw what to do can you help me?

He's talking to her because she's stroking his ego with sexual talk and making him feel desired. You don't need the drama do you?

Calling all Gossip Girl fans!?

I love the show Gossip Girl. There is a new show on tonight!! I can't wait! It might be the last for awhile because to the dumb writers strike. That is a shame. My favorite charcter on the show is Serena. What do you think of the show? I want to meet other fans.

Myspace fans? myspace is gossipgirl10701 please fell free to add me as a friend or message me.

Calling all Gossip Girl fans!?

I can't wait for tonight episode! I think Blair is pregnant with Chuck. I wanted her to stay with Nate..My favorite characters are Blair and Nate. I love Gossip Girl! It's my new favorite show. Ever since I started watching the firs episode, I automatically got hooked. The next episode will be on on January 28.

Calling all Gossip Girl fans!?

I love the sequels, "The It Girl". It's amazing. In case you haven't read them, they deal with Jenny Humphrey's leaving Constance Billiards and going to a private school called Waverly Academy.

Calling all Gossip Girl fans!?

ya i cant wait either my fav is blair and jenny

Calling all Gossip Girl fans!?

i love that show too!

my favorite is blair and serena!

i dont like jenny for breaking nate and blair up and i dont like what she did to that girl that is like the old her.

she knows how it feels so why would she treat someone else like that.....

deffinatle glad blair didnt go to paris too!!!!