Ending things with bf...so painful?

he is 5000 miles away, in the military, we've been off and on for 2 years. This hurts so much. I just saw him in july, we had the best time, but i dont trust him. I have reasons not to trust him. No proof that he's cheated, but he has told me other lies. I am unconfortable with a friendship he has with a girl he's known all his life. she would leave messages on his myspace like, i love you, miss you to death, etc. Finally i guess he hadnt spoken to her in a while and she found out i visited. she left a message calling me a psycho b*tch stalker that basically flew out there to get laid. I have NEVER met this girl! That was a month ago, i have tried to forget it. He told me he wasnt speaking to her, but i found out 2day he is. He sent a pic of himself to me and a few others, she was listed. Y lie about it? We've had many trust issues, i feel like its my fault 4 being dramatic. Is it? Should i believe him? I already ended things, he's barely said anything. ive ended things b4 tho

Ending things with bf...so painful?

He's not the one. Move on (and the 5000 miles apart should help).

Find a nice local boy. Focus on that....

Ending things with bf...so painful?

You are young to get out there and find a guy, it could be much worse. Try getting a divorce after 30 years, now that is painful!!!

Ending things with bf...so painful?

If it helps,

it's best you end it right now...you can't trust your guy while being the military, they become very cocky, lieing son of a-b****...I married my husband while he was in the marines, but I waited to make things official with him till he straigthen up, which he did after 3 years of being in there, the last year, he was a true honorable husband. But while your guy is fresh to the military, it's best to keep your distance, and if not, you will end up in tons of drama with him.