Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

I am an 18 year old guy and never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl, been on a date, not even a hug(well one time a girl huged me). I am 5'9" and really athletic and built ( ran about 10 miles yesterday so pretty good shape). I am a nice, kind, caring guy. I am pretty good looking, but only been told that by girls who have seen my pic online (msn,myspace,etc), never has a girl in real life told me I look good. I am smart going to college this fall and always had pretty good grades. I love all sports and can have fun doing just about anything, like to party but not go crazy. I dont want to be one of those guys who thinks hes a player, just want one good girl that will like me for me and want a relationship, haha but none do like me for me. So what is so wrong with me that girls dont find me attractive at all. The only thing I can think of is that I am really shy, but for no girls to ever be interested cuz I am shy thats weird. I need opinions what is wrong with me that I should change

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

You go to a small school, don't you?

There really are lots of options once you get out into the world. Just relax and enjoy being single while you are.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

relax buddy..the right girl will come along..trust me

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

your shy is probably it. you need confidence is all

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

me too, till i was 19 then it all fell into place.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

don't worry, im pretty sure you'll end getting married, just try to find a girl who talks a lot!

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

well. you sound like a pretty great guy. even almost too good to be true if you ask me. dont let the fact that you are shy take away from your self esteem or confidence. some girls like shy guys. they may even find it cute or comforting. one day youll find someone that is exactly right for you. maybe god has a plan for you. after all, if you are ashamed of being a virgin christianity is always a good excuse. =)

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

Maybe you smell bad. =)

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

You already know the answer.

Its in the way you carry yourself. Girls who only see you in pictures can't see that you're shy and timid around girls. Most girls like a guy who's not necessarily agressive but at least assertive (some do like agressive, but that's another matter). For a girl to like you, you're going to have to get over your shyness and just start talking to them. Be yourself and be confident in that. If you're good looking like you say you are, girls will flock to this new, confident you.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

Dont rush it. One thing that girls say they want is a caring, emotional guy. But in truth they are repelled by politeness. Try being confident. That is what girls really like. They want a guy that knows he is good looking. A guy that knows where he is going and how he is going to get there. Get rid of mr shy and embrace the person that you want to be. There are plenty of girls out there for you. Some will be attracted to mr. shy. But they are few and usually shy and mousey themselves. If you want the hottest girls. Let them know that you can have them or anyone else you want. College will help...

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

Hmm...it sounds to me like you might be too good. In case you haven't noticed, girls can't stand intelligent nerds who know lots about mathematics and physics and computer programming, but they just love jocks who look like neanderthals and need ten minutes with a pencil and paper to work out 5*7. It's just how girls are. They can't be pleased with a decent guy because he's not a challenge, and they can't be pleased with a bimbo because he's not nice to them. Until you happen across a member of that rare type of girl who actually has some sense when it comes to these matters, just concentrate on other aspects of your life for the time being.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

i don't think something is wrong with you u r just shy, that's all, i have a friend he is 21 and like u never kissed a girl, had a girlfriend or on a date, he is so hot, :p, but waiting for the right girl, also he is very shy.

Just wait for the right girl and focus on your school.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

Just relax the right girl will come to you. You sound like a good person who has their head on straight so I wouldn't rush anything besides you still have your whole life ahead of you. I'm 21 and engaged but I went through like 3 different guys till I found the right one and trust me heartbreak is not something you wanna deal with yet. So enjoy being single and good things come to those who wait.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

Don't sweat it. I'm 19 and I haven't done any of that stuff either. I was incredibly shy to the point where I had no friends, up until senior year in high school. Although I don't date, I do hang out with friends of both sexes. You have to take baby steps.

The biggest thing is not getting over your shyness, but learning how to handle it. I'm still a little shy around people that I don't know, but at the same time I can be outgoing around those that I do know.

Your shyness, like mine, probably stems from fear of judgment. What if they don't like me? What must they think of me, etc. If you feel those thoughts creeping into your mind just tell yourself it's not as serious as you're making it out to be.

Girls love guys who are confident about themselves. It's one of the first things a girl notices even before talking to you. So try to be more confident in yourself and others will notice.

All in due time.

Gonna be a 80 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl?

You sound like quite a catch! For that reason alone, I couldn't just pass by your question without offering up a little encouragement.

It might sound cliche, but I promise you, there is a big, wide world out there and there is someone in it that will make you feel like you've been waiting to find her for your whole life.

It might not seem like it now, but you are just hitting your stride. Your off to college in the Fall and that's a whole new world. You'll be surrounded by people who are in much the same place as you are in life, trying to figure out who they are and where they want to go. And there will be girls...

You just need to keep in mind that you are a good person, you are kind and smart. Forget about the fact that you are shy, lots of people are. Just try to be confident in yourself and comfortable in your own skin.

Think about this Fall and the beginning of your college career as an opportunity to grow and mature, surrounded by people who are just waiting for the chance to get to know what a wonderful person you are.

Keep your chin up and your mind open and your possibilities are endless.

Best of luck!