Ended things with my bf?

he is 5000 miles away, in the military, we've been off and on for 2 years. This hurts so much. I just saw him in july, we had the best time, but i dont trust him. I have reasons not to trust him. No proof that he's cheated, but he has told me other lies. I am unconfortable with a friendship he has with a girl he's known all his life. she would leave messages on his myspace like, i love you, miss you to death, etc. Finally i guess he hadnt spoken to her in a while and she found out i visited. she left a message calling me a psycho b*tch stalker that basically flew out there to get laid. I have NEVER met this girl! That was a month ago, i have tried to forget it. He told me he wasnt speaking to her, but i found out 2day he is. He sent a pic of himself to me and a few others, she was listed. Y lie about it? We've had many trust issues, i feel like its my fault 4 being dramatic. Is it? Should i believe him? I already ended things, he's barely said anything. ive ended things b4 tho.

Ended things with my bf?

You need to mean it this time. Clearly this other girl has reason to believe she too is his girfriend and he gave her that reason.... Do you really not see that?

He Is having his cake and eating it too

Ended things with my bf?

wtf is ur question??

Ended things with my bf?

well without trust you cant have a relationship and if he's showed you reasons not to trust him then break it off all the time your wasting trying to figure it out you could be tryin to find another guy that will treat you right and not lie to you but I know how it is when your in love and you feel like you cant leave hem but you just have to think about what you really want and what you will do to get it

Ended things with my bf?

ha when i was reading this it made me think that you were me

just let it go and get rid of that fool

Ended things with my bf?

If she described you as "a psycho b*tch stalker that basically flew out there to get laid" and your boyfriend didn't put her in her place (and have her apologize to you) maybe she got that idea from him... Either way, I'd be pissed too. I know leaving made you feel horrible but I think you should take some time and decide if the realationship is/was good for you.